Isn't talking to someone online and having sex with them cheating.?

[Rein6400]

I was talking with a friend of mine today. She says her husband goes to porn web cam sites and watches girls do things. She got mad and met someone on one of these sites to fulfill a porn fantasy of hers. I think she is cheating on her husband.....She says she isn't. What do you think....other than it is none of my business...I know it isn't, I just am wondering about it.She hasn't met him in person, he lives in another country.

[CourtneyQ]

It's called a sexual fantasy.Cheating...emotionally and not physically.

[n9wff7525]

ah, ye olde "two wrongs make it right" adage.To both of them, it must be a wonderful country to do things in private and show their affection for each other like this.

[ChristineB]

Yes, it is a form of cheating. She's only doing it to get back at her husband. Two wrongs do not make a right.

[Jen70]

Her husband is doing this but it's her fantasy? Does he know what she's doing? She knows what he's doing. If they both know what the other is doing and are okay with it then it's not cheating, it's just wrong or weird or something, but not cheating. If they are doing it behind each other's backs it's cheating.

[George0316]

yes this is cheating

[mizzhollywood264369]

Yes. It's also disgusting.

[looneybin90]

Having sex with someone is cheating.Watching porn is not cheating.Watching other people's web cams isn't exactly cheating, but it's not something I would want my spouse doing.

[tamarag2885]

Why not do it, the husband is too right? They both have no respect. I wouldnt worry about it, tell her to go for it, hubby thought it was ok so I can see why she also thinks its ok. I would have no desire to be with my husband after that. Shes been given her freedom on a silver platter hunny!!!!!

[blondi]

Talking to people on the internet is not cheating, neither is watching porn or whatever, but it is very dangerous in a marriage, and could cause a lot of big problems. I for one would kill my husband if he was doing that, and nor would I do that to him.Eventually your mind gets so screwed up on that mess that you don't know how to have a normal relationship.If they both don't stop this, then yes, one or both will probably end up cheating if they haven't done so already.

[blondspitfire9960]

To some people looking at porn and having cybersex is cheating - if not physically, but emotionally. It can very much hurt a marriage. I have seen too many problems arise from this kind of stuff and personally find it offensive.

[pumper6891]

I am speaking from experience on this one. It is cheating, emotionally. Mentally. If you are going somewhere else lusting after someone else rather than your wife, cheating.