do i have the right to be angry or not?

[HabrenW]

my husband got home from work at 3:30 today ,we've hardly seen each other all week.as soon as he got home straight onto the computer.....for 4 hours.i check the history porn as usual......and meet local girls website??????? AND NO HES NOT CHEATING ON ME but what the fuck is wrong with him?weve only been married for 3 monthsnope i didnt know about the pornand thanks for all of ur answers ;)

[HedyCheri]

I would be royally furious...Did you know about his Internet "needs" before you married?Just don't' have a kid...

[KC8421]

Talk to him see whats wrong and maybe he will confess to you.

[Willow9446]

Yes, you have a right to be angry. You need to sit down and have a serious conversation with him.

[Jellybean]

hes a man hun try talking to him

[Katie8074]

I think you have the right to be angry with him, but don't go up yelling in his face. I am 13, and when my parents have a heated argument, I always feel that my heart is going to break, and even though they're not yelling at me, I climb into bed and just kinda cry. I would sit down with him sometime, and ask him honestly what he does. If you accuse him, he will not face reality.

[lava]

hell yeah i would be mad

[MarcusJ]

MAN YO BOY IS NEEDIN SUMTHIN, LET HIM GET ON DAT SHIT

[KG3662]

Sounds like an addiction...talk to him. Yes you have the right to be angry but remember its what you do with your anger that makes a difference. Tell him he needs to focus on the marriage and not the computer porn sights, see if that helps. Best wishes.

[donnad]

i would say you need some professional counceling.if you can get him to go.you have every right to be angry.

[CoreyT]

yes you have a right to but you shouldnt. just talk to him. hes just not gotten into the habbit of marraige. i may only be 15 but i know more than you could ever imagine(is possible for a 15 year old)

[Chrys]

Didn't you know his habits before you got married ??? I'd shut down the computer and tell him it's either you or the door..(if he goes for the door, change the locks and never let him back in..)

[hellofiel23]

You have to talk with him in nice way, tell him all the feelings you have for him now A days. Then ask him if there is a problem or somethings he dislike in you. You need a good communication to resolve your problem, Because if anger leads to misunderstandings.

[clevergirl1676]

It's sad that you feel you have to check up on him. Marriage is about trust. Maybe, he needs social interaction? His job may not allow time to socialize. There could be a problem with him not being able to just talk with you. Only you know the answer to this. Why don't you just ask him what's up.Good marriages will only remain good if you communicate.

[jeffb4745]

He should want to jump in your pants instead of on the computer. He sounds like he has issues.

[ToniA4725]

AND YES HE IS cheating, no matter how you look at it, it's cheating.And yeah did you know about this before you married him?If so then you should not be bit>ching about this. Yes it SUCKS BIG TIME but it sounds as if he needs to find something else to do with his time.Good luck

[DrSimonds]

First of all,how long did you two date before getting married?You need to have a talk with him because something isn`t right.Porn is one thing,but the meet other girls thing isn`t what a happily married man needs to be doing.There must be a reason he would rather look at internet porn than to spend time haveing fun with his wife.Maybe I`m a bit old fashon,but why would a happily married man want to make friends with girls on the internet.

[CorpCityGrl]

You should be angry.You both have to sit and talk because there is something wrong. It doesn't mean it's you...it could be him and that he's lacking something. Have a serious conversation with him because this can get out of hand.

[interpol3962]

4 hours spent looking at porn? I would be more than just angry..

[lynx]

Shut down the computer and unplug it.

[trsupermom1]

Boys will be Boys.....

[Dance7405]

Yes, you have a right to be angry but you need to do something with that anger. Talk to him and work it out. Get counseling if he is addicted to it.