Confrontation or moving out

[jessi_rubin]

Suppose you have found out that he is not loyal to you. You decide to confront him for the same with evidences. Naturally, it does come to your mind that you should move out. Now what I want to ask is that what do you find more difficult to do confronting him or moving out of the relationship. I myself if ever caught in this kind of situation would find confronting my man, the most difficult to do.

[alexis]

When I found out my ex had cheated on me, I did confront him, he tried to lie - but when you have been with someone 3 years, thats hard to do, esp. to me. I told him I had also received "threats" on the phone from his "new lady friend" and at the time, I was also working with him. We ran a online company, and I was left to do most of the work. For about a month I debated leaving, but at the time I needed the money, so I stayed. When i did end up confronting him, packing my stuff as I did this, he actually pulled a gun out, and told me that if I left he would shoot himself. This when I was 18 I still remember as vivid as ever, walking down the hallway, waiting to see if he would - he did not. And oddly two years after this, my mother passed, he never even attended the funeral, yet his own mother did. Just shows you how rotten some people can truly be.

[lie_lee]

Well ! I would try and go as far, as i could. But if leaving him would be the only option, i'll leave. What's the point of be with some, if there is nothing left in your relation

[titaniumhijau]

Its depend on you. If you still want to be with him. You need to do something and if you have kids, i think you should think further. Many thing will happen if you move out..its will be the worst thing if you do that. Better think twice again and again. Ask someone about that first..