Do you think it's cheating when your BF, SO or husband is online chatting with other women?

[saintly_angeline7630]

So what do you think, if you caught your bf, SO or husband online at an adult fantasy site chatting with other women who claim to be his online lover, slave or even internet wife it's cheating? Would you break up over it or try and work it out even though he says it's all for fun and these women are miles and miles away? Would you be pissed off and upset or get revenge? Or would you let it slide by and do what he does to see how he likes it when he catches you?

[confused1938]

I just wanna tell you , there isn't a guy , married or not , doesn't do these things. its just natural for us to do that .

[myleslr2552]

If he asked me about it first, and the other woman knew about me, and I perhaps even spoke to her, but if everyone was completely honest, then fine. He could do it if all parties were ok and knew everything. I don't consider it cheating, but i could be extremely disrespectful if the mans real wife did not know.I have flirted with a man online and I regret it, because my partner did consider it cheating (we didn't have cyber sex or anything, but my partner was unhappy with our level of intimacy).I don't do it anymore, because I respect his wishes. He can do it if he likes, but I would never. (I know he would never either, but I'd still have no problem as long as we were all honest about it.)If he lied to me about it, or didn't tell me....Well, he would regret it very very much.Edit: Oh by the way, confused (guy above me), it seems you are just that. Confused about what a real man is. If you think that all men do it, you're a half wit. Most men actually respect their partners.

[billb0374]

Guys who are happy, and love their women don't cyber. He does it because he's cheating, or wants to. Hang around a while and you'll see I'm right!

[alynsta1]

Yes i think that its cheating because he is giving that person the conversation the intellect to that person! i think if there are fantasy's then they can be given at home not over a computer men or women don't need a virtual life outside of the real thing maybe talk to him about it see what you can do to make him happy ! i had the same problem and after awhile i said bye bye because he was giving what was mine even in just convo to another !

[abbeyy]

I would be pretty pissed, I wouldn't like the idea of my BF flirting with other woman I wouldn't care if they are miles away, flirting is flirting. Talk to him about it. Tell him that you just don't feel right, try and get him to understand on how you feel about this. Get him to put an end to it, make sure he knows how uncomfortable its making you feel. Don't seek revenge.... it will only turn things worse.Good luck.I hope I answered your question

[kittykatclaws]

I would be sooooo pissed, I would feel like I wasn't enough for him. I really wouldn't consider it cheating as there isn't any physical activity going on, but I would not like it one bit!!!!!! It's just wrong. Try to talk it out and work things out. If he knows it really hurts your feelings and upsets you, than he would stop if he loves you.

[avon0519]

Yes i think its cheating they have probably have conversations about sex if its fantasy. They have probably even talked over the telephone and how do you know she lives many miles away your only going by your husband who is trying to cover his tracks now.

[Mia6846]

anything that u have to hide from ur partner is cheating specially if there's someone else involved! if he likes seeing porn and does it in front of u then its not cheating!

[KathieM]

YES YES YES Why would I want my bf talking to girls he doesn't know? Also not every girl out there is miles away!! I find it's not just chatting it's cyber sex and he's having it with another girl. Some don't think there is anything wrong with it , but I do. I told my bf that his opinion is it's innocent and i told him to find someone else who thinks like he does because I don't want to date a guy that does that . I would rather be alone.