Am i the only one who feels this way?

[MelissaB]

Ok this has been bothering me for years. I don't understand how some girls are totally fine with their boyfriends and husbands going to strip clubs. Do you know what goes on there? The nakedness and the grinding and the back rooms?? Do you really not consider a hot naked women grinding on your husband or boyfriend to be cheating? I don't understand how you are ok with that? Some men even have sex with them in back rooms. I hear that happens a lot. How can you be ok with your husband touching other women most of whom are probably a lot more attractive than you and with perfect bodies?? And the amount of money some men pay for these things?? Am i the only one who wants to die just thinking about it? Then they come home and want sex and who do you think they are thinking about during sex??

[ForeverinLove]

Hmm... someone has a boyfriend who likes strip clubs and she's looking for justification.... I'm staying out of this one.

[NT]

i KNOW BUT I MET A GUY THERE I HAVE TWINS............................................. .................................................. ................................................. KIDDING IT REALLY SUCKS

[Sammy9138]

uh...in my opinion I just hate that and the men that do that, they are just sick! I wouldnt be o.k if my husband or bf would do that.

[alfredthegnomepimp]

Well my boyfriend went to a strip club 1,000 miles away from me so I couldn't stop him. He called me while he was there at least, which was mildly reassuring because at least he was thinking of me. I think I'll tell him to get tested when he comes to visit though haha.

[LollipopL]

I feel the same way.I say, CLOSE ALL STRIP CLUBS!

[DragonLady]

First of all...Have you ever seen some of the strippers up close in the light? Most of them are pretty nasty lookin'. Second of all...if there is trust in a relationship, it would be an issue.

[actresswantabe44]

I dont get it etheir its gross and soo untursting so no u are not alone i'm with on that. When i get a husband he's not going to hooters or anything.

[Ronniej]

Women also go to male strip clubs. But to answer your question, if they have to go to be entertained, something is wrong with their feelings and desire for you.

[bratnumber5]

it's an issue of trust, I trust my husband TOTALLY. if you cannot trust the one you are with, perhaps you should end your relationship. and yes I do think it's gross.

[brittany]

no you arent the only one who feels this way.i completely agree. i believe that it IS cheating. it's also incredibly degrading to women, because men dont see them for their personality or soul- they see them only as objects to get "off" to, & only care about their boobs & bodies, etc.i would never be with a guy who likes going to strip clubs.

[KaraJ]

I'm no expert, but as far as I know, most guys going to strip clubs are not getting laid. As an occassional outlet, I see no problem with it. A little release and variety does not mean they are going to cheat. I'd be more suspicious of the guys who claim to be holier-than-thou; they're the ones more likely to be getting some on the side.Guys will be guys. You either put up with a little bit of slack or a lot of tension... or else date only geeky guys, or switch to girls.

[Payal]

Nope, not just you - even i feel the same. I just feel like killing the person who goes to see that ****It is very general to feel it like that and i just start getting irritated to the core. But, he says..he doesnt even touch the girl- i believe him. Hence he had gone only once till now and told me later but I guess i gave him proper understanding about how i feel when you see other naked women and told him not to repeat it He understood and again i got to hear a comment that you are so conservative and said usually Indian girls are like these [i am an indian girl and he is indian too]But i guess..what ever blame u get..- keep it aside..but go for making them understand..how stupid- weird and disgusting u feel..when they want to go ..for strip club..and as much as possible ..keepthem notified that u dont like it.Hope this helps

[Thunderman9MinkysThor]

There may be some of what you describe going on in some clubs, but as a rule the quickest way to get thrown out is to touch one of the girls. It's more about the fantasy and the club making money than it is any actual "fulfillment" for the guy.I am not defending guys that go there, but often their wives or girlfriends leave something to be desired in listening to the needs of their men. These women can be too comfortable and think what they are doing is sufficient when their men are crying for attention.There will also be the guys that always do it because it's a forbidden thing and that's another whole discussion.

[ruby_7]

well is porn cheating? i donno but i sure as hell doin't like eather of them, and my boyfriend would know it too!

[Leilah]

Not to mention the spread of aids and other diseases. Men who frequent these types of places don't see the harm it may cause their families. As long as their needs are met, forget about anyone else. I wish these clubs were all closed forever, but as long as selfish men keeps them going, they will never close.

[permanentlyherman]

I think you are misinformed about the strip clubs. I don't frequent the clubs but I have been to several. The ones that I have been to are definitely not whore houses. In fact I went to one strip club in Florida where they had a sign posted stating that is is against the law to touch one of the girls.People are turned on by different things. I took a girl to a Kenny Rogers concert and it was like foreplay to her. She was so hot by the time we left that she would have done anything. I wasn't offended. I just enjoyed the ride. If you don't like having your husband or boyfriend go to these clubs, you should discuss it with him. Good luck.

[KareBear]

Yes it is cheating and yes it is wrong, but men are grown ups and they will chose for themselves (whether that choice is right or wrong) what kind of lifestyle they want. The big question here is why do the women talorate it? Why do they continue a relationship with someone who obviously does not love or respect them? If your man is hitting the strip clubs then you need to drop him and move on as quickly as possible.