How long a relationship?

[SerenBaker]

How long were you with your hubby before he started cheating? We were together 19 years when we split up, but he had another relationship online two years before that, and cheated on me with my friend sometime before that--I don't remember. Mind you, around that time, I cheated on him, too, which is probably why we moved on from there, but then I was faithful and he wasn't. I'm curious, though...they talk about the 7 year itch--has it been 7 years or longer or shorter?

[alexis]

My ex and I were only together for 3 years, but we were the ones that everyone thought would get married, his mother adored me (wanted a girl, got two boys instead, one smart and then the one I dated - the trouble maker), his whole family loved me, except for one person.

His cousins roommate (female) that he was ALSO messing around with right before we split. Never even seen those two as an "item", considering he used to make fun of her all the time behind her back.......pisses me off more knowing that he would be that rude to someone (her) then end up being with her after I treated him good.