Is It Cheating?????(advice Pls)

[BRANDYN702]

I Need A Little Advice Because I Am Not A Person Who Cheats I Just Rather Get Out Of A Bad Situation And Leave It Alone But I Hava Situation. I Met A Gentleman Very Nice But He Tells Me He Is In A Relationship Hat He Is Not Happy In And Is Trying To Get Out But Is Affraid To Leave Her In The Dark Because She May Kill Or Herself Or Something We Have Never Done Anything We Are Just Friends, But I Can Feel A Physical Attraction, I Think Maybe I Should Just Back Off Until He's Fully Single And Then Go For It. Others Tell Me If Its Something You Want Then Go For It. I Have Had My Share Of Bad Relationships And I Dont Want To Be A Home Wrecker But I Am A Little Undecided.

[SerenBaker]

Keep in mind that he's telling you things to get you into bed, not necessarily anything that is true. I bet if you talked to the person he's in the relationship with, she'd be stunned and shocked. Don't go there. You wouldn't want it done to you, don't do it to some other woman. And besides that, if he'll cheat on her to be with you, he'll cheat on you to be with someone else.

[savannah]

I agree with SerenBaker. Ask yourself if you want to become involved with a man who's obviously not being honest or considerate of a woman he's living with. That woman could easily be you before long.

You didn't say if they were married, so I'm assuming they are not. But they are in a committed relationship, and I too suspect she would be surprised to learn that they are in the trouble he says they're in.

Get out of one fire before you jump into another one.

[lie_lee]

I don't think that the person is worth to trust. He is just playing cute with you, nothing more. Infact, you can go to the his girlfriend, you will find the truth yourself, and i suspect that she has any idea of the trouble in their relationship as he says.

[titaniumhijau]

Maybe you can wait and give a time to yourself and that man. Who know something bad happen or that man will solve his problem? Be careful first is the best way right now. If not, maybe you already ruin your friendship with him..