Would you cheat?

[chris5133]

Would you cheat on your husband or wife even if you were together for eight years?If yes, why?

[lady_phoenix398883]

No. If I was so selfish and/or desperate and/or needy and/or whatever that I couldn't keep my pants on, I'd be HONEST with him, get a divorce and THEN sleep with someone else.

[wc2ketey]

No.Because I took a vow. And it meant something to me.

[Babygurl6777]

No I wouldn't cheat because that would break my husband heart.....and I know if he cheated on me I would be devastated.why build a strong marriage to mess it all up in the end

[ben3106]

no, people who do are weak and selfish.

[spence6209sbcglobalnet]

No I would not! Did you listen at your wedding? Not suppose to be with anyone else. Get a divorce and be with who you want to be with.

[swtchrissy_24]

why? no

[Jo]

I was with my ex for 6 years. It was not a good relationship. I never looked outside my relationship he did. Today 4 years later. I am so happy he did. It allowed me to wake up, get a self esteem and move into a better more fulfilling life.

[ripp]

I've had plenty of chances and the answer will always be no.why get married in the first place,if your not going to be rue to this person.

[mizzhollywood26]

No. That's just stupid. There's no good reason for cheating.

[TheMrs1315]

No, I made a promise forever...not eight years.

[kevin02915]

NO, get a divorce if you dont love them anymore

[jiyah1251918]

No sane rational person cheats on thier wife or husband, people who do that, there is something wrong with them mentally. Just think about it, why would you do something like that? What would you gain from cheating, only problems can come from that its just dumb.

[MrsG-unit4248]

I hope not, but what does 8 years have to do with it?

[Nessaja5747]

nope

[punxsutawneyphil6489]

No. If things were that bad, I would divorce.

[Mabe]

No. If my marriage was bad enough that I'd want to cheat, and I'd tried everything to fix it, then I would end my marriage BEFORE fooling around with anyone else.

[haigazimo]

No. That's one of the reasons we should watch having friendships with the opposite sex that are not connected to our spouses. We should also not be together with them one on one. That's a huge safe guard. Emotions can lead us to do things our reasoning is against, so we have to keep them in check.If you are thinking of an affair, then cease contact immediately with whomever you're talking to. If you need counseling seek it out, but don't destroy the marriage over some selfishness. Marriage is about you focusing on the other person and that person focusing on you.

[delicious7300]

it doesn't matter how long you have been together if the person is selfish they are gonna cheat regardless of how long you have ben together or how many kids you have

[Ice]

me , never ...

[xiomanger666]

The only time I would ever cheat was if the marriage was dead, if the sex life was non-existant and if my spouse had no feelings for me but contempt and hate. Actually in most such cases I would divorce, but I might consider keeping a bad marriage for the sake of the children and perform my role as the husband. However, I would have discreet affairs in such a situation.

[joan_of_freakin_arc0278]

cheating always begins in the mind with a thought, but one can control their thoughts. if u don't love him anymore, get a divorce before u begin a new relationship, cheating destroys, not only the person u betrayed but yourself. there is never a reason to cheat on a spouse, its best to file for divorce and go on your way than to betray your marriage vowes, and hurt people, and hurt yourself.