cheating husband?

[feranmi]

I found out my husband is cheating. l caught him sending email to his exgirlfriend and challenged him on the spot, what did l get was a hard slap on my face and throughly beaten that night. l got bruises all over my body. l hate violence and men that beats their wives. Now l view him as enemy and hated him with passion. What can l do, l love him and my life is revolved around him, but ever since then l don't trust him anymore.How can l be independent again and regain my self esteem? My family says l should come over and start working with them, but l dont want to leave my husband . Pls help,

[roguetrader12002]

You dont want to leave your husband? Then stay, get help. If you wanna leave leave, if you wanna stay stay. Seems simple enough

[LatinoHeat4ever0586]

well, once the abuse starts, it doesn't stop...it only gets worse! it's not a healthy situation for you (not sure if you have kids..but if you do, then it's not good for them either). you need to leave him...you need to find a job, save some money and move out!! trust me on this!!! i was in an abusive relationship for 2 years.....he is the reason our daughter was born premature and has mental issues now. if you hate the abuse, then leave!! while he is at work one day, have someone in your family move you out! i am sure they will allow you to stay with them until you can get on your feet.....oh, and about the cheating thing...once it starts, it too will continue....once a cheater ...always a cheater.

[MommaBear1609]

You don't want to leave a cheating, abusive spouse? Do you realize how emotionally and physically abused you are right now? You aren't thinking straight. File for a separation/divorce, change the locks and throw his butt to the curb. You can't "regain your self-esteem" -- if you allow him to get away with this, you never had any to begin with. You might love him, but someone that treats you like dirt doesn't love YOU. Please, please, please get a referral for psychological counseling for abused women -- you need it, badly.

[sylverbutterfli]

then ur stupid! you say you view him as an enemy, but then you dont want to leave him? make up your mind. if you like being used as a punching bag, then why should we care? not everyone has a supportive family that will offer them a way to get out. either get out, or shut up.