hello, I am in need of some advice, Can you help me?

[veronicap]

I have had a very bad couple of weeks. First, I lost my medical insurance, and I need the medical because of some health problems, So since I am not able to get my insurance, I cant get my medication that I need. So I have been going through withdrawls because I cant get my medication. I am very depressed, and suicidal and I have been a total bitch because of not having my medication. Then to top it off my husband cheated on me, I am very angry about it but in some way me and my husband need each other, meaning I need him because he pays the bills, and he needs me because he has no where to go.I am tryng to forgive him but I cant .So my question is can anyone give me some advice about all this? I am totally lost and right now I cant think because I am very depressed. sign lost

[stargazer]

my partner sounds like yours they are selfish and we are week to think we need them i wish i had ended my relationship years ago my post is under your question thats how bad things are for me i dont know what 2 say but if you can get through this by yourself do it if you feel you need to take him back make some very clear rules i have never found that i could trust my partner and he doesnt pay the bills just makes them for me to cope with ...there has 2 be a way out for all of us feeling like this its just finding a way through all i know is he was sorry the first time he cheated on me just like the 3 times after that...hes let you down when you need him thats why we both end up here ...lost

[2QLearn]

You are physically & emotionally over-reacting to the situations.First, I suggest taking a few slow, deep, breaths...Then let them out just as slowly...After relaxing for a bit, carefully read the sources listed below:

[Cherie]

I wish we had a better system than what we have when it comes to medications for the underinsured, uninsured and the elderly (who more often than not have to pick between eating and getting medications). I guess if you have family to ask for help you would have done that already. Try asking the pharmacist for recommendations on assistance with prescription costs. I know Montel advertises one but can't remember the #. It's partnership for prescription assistance. PPA. You can also call the health department or go to an emergent clinic...like Med-One. Some doctors have samples they can give you till you can buy yours. It doesn't hurt to call around to ask for help. As far as the cheating hubby, you have to decide whether you will be able to continue a healthy relationship with him or will you be miserable, always accusing him of being unfaithful, never secure with him again. Time heals all wounds but we never forget. I wish you the best. Take care.

[Liz6047]

Don't make impulsive decisions. Try to hold on until you find a way out of this. Focus on 1 week at a time. Talk to friends, family that are reliable. Priorize your issues. The first one is your health, then your relationship. Be patient, it will take time.

[bethy4jesus]

I am so sorry you are having such a hard time. I don't know what kind of medications you have but there are some places you can check on line to see if you qualify to get help. I will post some on the sources. I have recently checked on some of these sources and know that if you show your doctor you are contacting them you can sometimes get samples to get you through until they send them. Also, it helps to bring the printout to the doctor as they can call and verify your need. I would say you need to be able to talk to someone in counseling about your husband and your feelings. Don't give up because better times have to be coming ...right? If you are on the bottom...you need to look up. There is someone who knows everything you need and has all the answers for you....Jesus. Pray to Him...talk to Him like you would a friend and tell Him all about your hurting. He loves you more than you know. He wants to help you but you need to ask Him. Just tell Him how lost you feel and that you need Him to direct your path. He promises to do that in Proverbs 3:6. He also promises to give you a sound mind in 2 Timothy 1:7. Pray these promises back to God because He will never lie to you.I will pray these for you also....and that God will wrap His loving arms around you to keep you safe and give you peace.Feel free to email me if you need to talk to someone. â€* On-call Prayer Warrior â€*

[undying]

First off, its very normal to go through a stage of depression. Its not health to stay there though. The pain of being cheated on is unimaginable if you have never been through it yourself. I know this pain well, check this website...its greatwww.marriagebuilders.com...This guy has a book called "His Needs, Her Needs" that is great, you can pick it up at any local bookstore. Another great book is "Healing is a Choice" by Stephen Arterburn. Here is the main thing you need to understand right now. God Loves you no matter how you feel, even if you feel he doesn't. All of these other things happening is just to weaken and frustrate you. All of these issues are very important and really big deals, when put together it is unimaginable. This is a specific attempt by satan to ruin your marriage. Marriage is one thing given by God that Satan hates, do you have the right to call it quits? According to the Bible you do. If you want to work it out then go for it with all you have...I dont want to get to long here but like i said i know the pain very well. My wounds are not healed yet. Email me if you want to talk or need anythiing.God Bless