My husband is cheating i am prgnant and I think i am having a nervous breakdown please help!?

[baby3]

I know for a fact he is cheating he has confessed. He has done it before and i guess I just wanted to believe he would change!

[parish]

you must confront your husband and the problem before you loose your baby......NOW!

[tim2755]

Want me to drive you to the doctors?

[barrett_s22]

get to the doc don't put your baby in danger

[MidnightCoffeeforGavin]

leave your husband....stay with close familyand seek counseling... if you're willingif not, at least your family should be goodsupport.

[3rik]

thinkof your baby right now you are harming him a lot.confront your husband and tell him how everything is.look for a local place to get help.I'm sorry you have to go through this right now but turnthe problems to god and he will guide you he understands better than any of us.

[ndnqt19665076]

OH my....I really feel bad for you...your husband is one big *sshole for cheating on you...and especially while you are carrying his child...You need to calm down for the baby's sake...take some deep breaths....You really need to talk with your husband....this is not good for you or the baby...also talk to the doctor for some suggestions...

[Rob7964]

the sad thing, is that I know at least 4 different guys who cheated on thier pregnant wives (oh, and I make 5)... I don't know there have been questions on that here before... It's crazy that these women konw about it, yet they go for it anywayz.... In the end, we are not about to leave our wives.. but I don't know why we do it... Heres the link of me asking why women have affairs with married guys with a pregnant wife.http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=Ap0SHdiTJBHQIa1MaLNySpzsy6IX;_ylv=3?qid =20071113120448AA6rgCq

[tballbabe8287]

Some men are pigs sounds like you have one,,, try and stay calm for you and the baby's sake throw him out..

[forever4]

Leave and move in with family. You are not in a state where you can be so upset. Family will care for you and baby.

[Hello2u0996]

once a cheater, always a cheater. your situation does suck but you have to be strong. you should be happy and looking forward to your new baby. focus on that.

[elvlayarvvi1069]

divorce, now! or you risk losing that little baby! go for child support and alimony, seek a lawyer today! now! go! get off of here and just divorce now! good luck! =)

[Thatdude8226]

Feel bad for you, and at such a time when you need support, what a jerk. You should start organising your split from the moron, I think you have more than enough proof that thinghs wont change, You are going to be the Mother Machine and he is going to feed his ego and appetite when and how he likes

[SP7918]

Explain to him the divorce proceedings and approximately he will be paying for his fling. I hope it was good for him

[river083643]

This may sound a bit nuts, but I would have my father call the woman. I would ask him to talk to her about what she is doing. After they broke up, because my dad is really good at getting the point across....I would leave my husband and find a happy life. You can be just fine with a baby and on your own for a while. You will eventually find someone who knows you for the angel that you are and will never do anything to hurt you....there are quite a few really great guys out there...you don't have to focus on this bad one any more. It isn't worth it.

[ella7237]

GIRL.. I am pregnant as well and I can not imagine what you are going through. First things first...call your doctor and tell him EXACTLY how you are feeling. You don't want to put your baby in danger. Next, you have to decide with all that you know are you willing to stay married to a man who constantly lets you down? You have to think of the future and if you are willing to stay you two need to talk to someone about his infidelity and your issues that he has brought on...good luck.

[Katie9914]

You deserve better. I think you stay out of fear of the unknown. Get support from family & friends. Don't be scared to go out on your own. The exact same thing happened to my SIL. Her husband cheated on her during both of her pregnancies. She stayed w/ him even when he gave her an STD while pregnant! Now she is working on her confidence issues & I think she is working up the courage to leave. One can only hope...I wish you the best. Don't waste the best years of your life on someone who doesn't give a flip about you. Take care.

[CB4260]

If he is not willing to be faithful to you then it is time to give him the boot and get child support.

[vsvp_08]

My dear truly sorry for the bad news! But the best thing to do is leave, you need to be in a stress free environment and with someone that loves you enough to KEEP IT IN HIS PANTS (unless its for you ofcourse). Someone that truly loves you would not go as low as to cheat especially while you are PREGNANT! COME ON! You have to be strong for your baby, go stay with family or best friend whoever is closest to you. He is obviously not fit to be a husband or a father, so let him go. I know its hard but its not worth it because if he has done it before and obviously again, both while you weren't and while you were pregnant there is nothing that is going to stop him from doing it again, why would he? So leave immediately, and definately call your doctor if you are physically not feeling well this tremendous stress could hurt your baby. Hope things get better!

[Christ9077]

It's not the end of the world. What you really need from him is honesty, which you are now getting. You need trust and reliability, which is something you will need to work on. Sorry you feel so bad. I've been cheated on before (most of us have), and it hurts. Just remember the hurt doesn't last forever. You will feel better soon enough. You'll be able to work things out for yourself in time.

[jenniferk5683]

You need to get away from this loser and make it on your own. I know that being pregnant makes it that much harder but you need to think of your unborn child and you dont want them to have to deal with the stress you are dealing with having a asshole for a husband. There are good men out there and they are waiting to meet you just get through this hurdle and things will start looking up. A man like this needs to be shot and you deserve alot better