why are guys so dumb?

[sweetlizzzy29]

so it's been 6 months since we broke up..we were together on and offfor about 5 yrs. its been 5 months since we last slept together..and 4months since his last email...asking me if i have a new boyfriend??whatever... now i hear from his best friend, he is marrying the girl heleft me for! they've only been together 7 mos... uuugh! part of me isangered, he was 5yrs of my life!!part of me wants to contact this womanand say that her soon to be husband is a cheat! and part of me isdepressed, he's never coming back, and still in spite of everything imiss him, i long for him, i love him! i txt him wow! congrats! noresponse. does he hate me? why couldn't he be the one to tell me hisgood news? and then i made a rude comment to his best friend, maybehe's marrying her because she is pregnant, he doesn't love her...i knowthat was wrong, but its what i felt.. because when we broke up he said,i have to do this, i love you, but we can't be together...what kind ofboloney is that?!

[TaylorB]

THEY ONLY THINK ABOUT SEX SOME OF THEM ANYWAY!!!

[cadpah]

Guys are dumb because women wouldn't understand clever.

[MISSBLONDIENZ]

your on the write spot YES!! she is pregnant!!!!hes not with her because he loves her! its soooo obvious he has to be with her....why would he just leave after 5years??he obviously loves you its just something he had to do :Dim so sory to hear your lose!!!!good luck in the futurexo

[luxemomny]

Move on. If he wanted you he would be with you. That's my motto. And I have no idea why they are so dumb. I'm still trying to figure that one out. I don't think that their dumb really just insanely immature and selfish sometimes.

[TPCAN]

Girls can be just as dumb too, you know. Gender isn't what determines that kind of personality, or "stupidity." It is the person that does. Still, I'm sorry he left you :( I guess there are questions that just don't have logical answers. I don't know why he did that to you.If it makes you feel better, I was also dumped by someone on Facebook yesterday. I was just as upset as you are because she didn't care about how I was feeling, and yet she explicitly told me that she didn't like me, and didn't care about me nor my feelings. It's not just guys that can do things like that. Girls can certainly do that too! It's just a matter of personality. Maybe the guy that you love is as much of a jerk as the girl that dumped me. ha! they make a good match ;)Hope this helped.

[these_moments_fade]

Oh that's harsh.. sorry to hear that.He sounds like a complete d*ck_head.He doesn't sound like a guy you want to spend your time with.About his bestfriend telling you that, could he possibly be lying to you? Could he set up his bestfriend to tell you that just to piss you off even more?Don't waste your time thinking about this guy. It's time to move on..The only way you can move on is to forgive and forget and then continue on with life. I know that might sound impossible right now but you can do anything if you put your mind to it.Concentrate on other things. Do what you wanna do, talk to who you wanna talk to! have some fun and don't get trapped in this hole of sadness.

[FoxM6527]

why are girls so dumb and needy and loose things they want back later because they can't make up there mind because of massive insecurities of not being loved right by there parents or trying to get attention by still staying in contact with there ex's they are ex's fro a reason cut the cord and learn to survive on your own.