what should i do? my husband cheated on the whole time i've been with him up until april?

[NM]

Its like this i'm young we have been married for two years now and the whole time he was with me he cheated on me and up until april of this year. It bothers me still and i ask him how many women have he slep with he cant give me a corect andswer and tells me its the past or brings up something about me. I told me he thinks about other women lesbiens body parts and how gay men have sex. it hurts alot everytime i think about what he did i'm not even turned on by him any more. He has bad hygen and did not have that before when he was cheating on me, he would shower twice a day brush his teeth and fix himself up now he wont do any of that i ask him to and he says im treating him like his mother. he tells me he wants me to suck his dick all the time and he wont clean it he gets made waht should i do? helpwhat should i do

[cindyc]

Oh my god............pack your stuff and get as far away from this creep as you can. Have you ever heard of domestic violence? You are a victim of abuse lady, and if you don't get out, it will only get worse. Why are you still with him. There are shelters all over the country. Make a safety plan and get out. 1800879LINK

[gails]

Honey, this man has no respect for you at all!!!There are a lot of good men out there who would treat you right.Get rid of this looser and the sooner the better.If he wants to be a dirty slob, let him go back to his whores or whoever his was with before.

[Katie8817]

Leave his butt in the dust.He sounds like he has some serious issues and you are just now seeing them?How do you know for sure they've stopped? Because he doesn't take a shower at home often? That to me still isn't a good enough reason and I can understand you not being attracted to him anymore due to his personality and unhealty issues And tell him you are going to wash his mouth out with soap if he accusses you of treating him just like his mother again.This guy needs to grow up, I hope you don't have any children because you could leave him so much easier.Oh and please go get yourself checked out for STD and take him with you even if you have to drag him by the ear.I'm sorry to hear about this, I know you will be so much better off once you get away from him, you deserve much better, don't ever settle for less. And this guy isn't even half a man.

[johnc]

hell if your serious get the hell out he is one sick dude

[MAXR]

Leave him.. You deserve and can do better

[HUM]

IT'S CALLED BACK BONE MY FRIEND!!!! DUMP THAT LOOSER!!! Then go get tested for STD'S cause you dont know what all he done gave you!!!NO RESPECT AT ALL.... and if you have any for your self then you would get away from that LOOSER!!!!!