I think that my husband is cheating on me with a girl he met on myspace. What would you say to the girl?

[Brown_Eyed_Girl]

I found messages back and forth from her and my husband. They weren't actually sexual or anything, but they were definitely flirting. I have already confronted my husband about it, and I want to say something to this women about leaving my husband alone. What advice do you have on what I should do or say to this woman and my husband?? Thanks for the help!

[the_silverfoxx]

boy have you got problems i meet my girlfriend really on that place no kidding. my honest opion?

[sillerious8695]

its on him to show you EVERY email and message exchanged between the two and then tell HE have to want to write this women that its over and done. whatever you write her has no gravity as long as he still contacts her behind your back.

[SexyLeo]

Erase the my space account and get rid of the problem....make sure you delete all the friends or else the account will still b open but if they call each other then you need to get more info look at you cell phone bill and e mail her and tell her that he is married and you want this to stop NOW ......this is the reason my husband doesn't have one

[KINGANDME]

YOU AND YOUR HUSBAND NEED A REAL HEART TO HEART.. IF THIS BEHAVIOR UPSETS YOU THEN HE NEEDS TO KNOW NOW. I AM NOT TO SURE SAYING ANYTHING TO THIS GIRL WILL HAVE ANY EFFECT MAYBE SHE DOES NT KNOW HE IS MARRIED. TELL HER EXACTLY THAT AND SEE IF SHE IS A TRUE PERSON SHE WILL BACK OFF. BUT LETS FACE IT CHEATING EXISTS ONLY BECAUSE THERE IS UNMORAL PEOPLE IN THIS WORLD. START WITH YOUR HUBBY HAVE IT OUT WITH HIM.... GOOD LUCK

[kimh9614]

I would ask her if she knows that he is married. She probably will not leave him alone if he is encouraging her to stay in touch and flirt with him. Do not take it out on her she only knows what he tells her.

[Live_For_Today]

You can't throw all the blame on her for flirting with your husband as it takes two to flirt and have an affair. You don't know what your husband has said to her and for all you know, he may of told this lady that he's single, and believe me alot of men do this. So find out the true story if you can and you know where to start and demand to know the truth.

[simplesam]

I would probably lie and tell her he has some awful disease, that will scare her off. Unless of course she suffers from it too.or you could tell her, he is cheating on me, he will cheat on you too. History repeats itself.

[Mary0352]

You shall say nothing to this woman. It's your husbands fault. This woman is flirting with your husband because he gave her the green light to do so. Women don't flirt with men who don't show interest in them, and you know that. You need to talk to ONLY your husband. He is the one that is betraying your trust and his commitment to you.

[bluesky1032]

just introduce yourself and sayhope to become friends as well

[sam3267]

girl, wat i would do is when he is not aroung go to his myspace and be like bitch u better leace my husband alone or im gonna beat the fuck out of u! Or u should tell ur husband to stop flirting wit her or im gonna leave u!

[purplegirl]

Forget her, focus on your marriage and why your husband is flirting on line with other women to begin with. Get counseling of some form and work it out. In the meantime demand your husband close the page, it's for kids or genuine adults wanting to keep touch with loved one far away or creeps who want to meet other women without their wives knowing, pedophiles preying on unsuspecting kids or stupid jealous parents trying to hurt other kids - here read all about it.http://suburbanjournals.stltoday.com/articles/2007/11/14/news/sj2tn20071113-1114stc_pokin_1.ii1.txt

[iyamacog]

Nothing........But I'd have a lot to say to him.

[GhazalaM]

I dont think talking to that girl is gonna be of any help to you,it is your hubby who has a responsibility towards you, not the gal, so if you dont like whats going on between the two,express it to your hubby.....and i believe ,abandoning all the links( with a person who holds a minuscule of an importance )for the one who means' life' to him,should not be a problem.......Feel free in talking to him.

[everyoneask]

it not the girl from myspace it your husband the one who cheating on you he the one want her and writig to her ...you need to talk to your man tell him to step up be a man if he want to be with you or you to move on to find other man who will be faithfull

[only1sol2000]

Tell the Bit#@ to back off your man and find her own. But seriously, the problem is your man cause he is conversing with her..so he is encouraging it..your bells should be going off... bad sign girl

[charlie]

SHE is NOT the problem!!! Your husband is cheating on you and disrespecting you, I would never put up with that from a guy. What else is he doing behind your back??? The girl doesn't care if he is married or not. And if she doesnt know that's even worse your husband is keeping you hidden. My space??? Isn't that for kids and young adults anyway how old is he?? He needs to Grow up. Ps. YOU DESERVE MORE RESPECT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[Sunshinesunny1]

I found messages back and forth from her and my husband. They weren't actually sexual or anything, but they were definitely flirting. I have already confronted my husband about it, and I want to say something to this women about leaving my husband alone. What advice do you have on what I should do or say to this woman and my husband?? Thanks for the help!

Chances are...The girl might not know he's married...If that's the case just drop her a friendly line...If she knows then its time to think big! :mad:

This is unexceptable behavior and its time for him to close out his account!!!!

Good Luck!

[usarecred]

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