If your husband leaves before you wake up and doesn't take his cell, is he possibly cheating?

[angie7176]

my husband came home with groceries and I asked where he'd been, he said "just out and about". He was gone 3 and a half hours or a little longer and I had no way of getting in touch with him and he didn't say anything the night before about leaving. Lately, it seems like he's been giving me just little bits of attitude.

[Reiny]

I would wonder too.

[ME5796]

He could be cheating. Or maybe he's jsut unhappy and getting out of the house to be away from you. Either way, you need to talk about it.

[ella7483]

Did he leave his phone at home? Work? Maybe he really forgot it and you know how vague men are....try not to worry until you have solid proof...it could be just nothing.

[ndnqt19663358]

It is possible that he is cheating...but not definite....It was rude of him not to tell you that he was leaving...something sounds a bit fishy to me....Gone for that many hours and conveniently left his cell phone at home....If he is giving you attitude...it could be because he is guilty of something....I don't know about most couples...but both my husband and I will wake one another up if we need to leave the house early in the morning...just to let one another know that we will be gone...even if it is to have some alone time....We do this out of respect and not out of obligation...

[raininonsunday0060]

Secrets and lies. I would wonder, too.

[zilbaby]

Just wait for a night when your husband is home and around and sit down and talk to him. Say listen sweetie (or whatever you call him) I've really missed spending time with you lately and you've been out a lot. It seems like you've been shrugging me off ( or however you are feeling). If he get furious and starts a huge fight then he's up to no good..Call him out for it.

[Tracie38]

Why not just ask him? speculating is not a good thing. You will drive yourself crazy over nothing. You had his cell why not ook in it.

[NiCkAy]

something may be up, but sometimes men need their space too, think about it if he came home and said " I just had to get away from you" how would that make you feel, so sometimes they need to get out and vent. I wouldnt worry about it, talk to him and tell him how you are feeling.

[cpeezie]

While he's at work he could be cheating....when you're gone he could be cheating....anybody COULD be cheating anytime....it doesn't mean they are. I agree with what one of the guys on here said in that maybe he just wants some space away from time to time. Again agreeing, either way the two of you do need to talk about it. Four hours away from home isn't the solution, gotta fix the issue.

[TracyM3624]

Hmmmm.....could be he just needs some space and time alone and isn't cheating....don't jump to that conclusion that he is cheating just because of those things. However, clearly something is different with him....probably a good idea to ask if something is bothering him.

[DarrenA]

Possibly yes. But there is not enough information to say one way or the other. He also maybe didn't sleep well and so he went and got a cup of coffee and some groceries. You should have asked him more about specifically where he went and why it took over 3.5 hours. If he left before you woke up, then how do you know how long he was really gone?Also, you could look at the calls on his phone and see who he is calling.

[DianaBeeBop]

Why dont u try checking the milage on the car? Sound like he could be up to something, especially if he is making a habit out of this.Did you ask him why he didnt take his cell? I would.

[Momma]

truthfully, i think he is going to the gym,, thats what i do that early, but if it happens everyday, then ASK, if he doesn't give a decent answer, then block his car with your car, this way he can't get out,

[ashleybredesen9098]

my hubby forgets his too but that is just because he is blonde (really he is).i wouldn't worry about it too much. talk about how you feel to him before you get out of control about the cheating issue. my hubby hates it when i accuse him on a whim. i am a very jealous type (which is bad because every chick i see i think my hubby would cheat with her). i have learned to trust. he is honest with me about those girls in his workplace. he is a helicopter flight instructor. i can tell you about an example of when i accused him for no reason (i was dumb). he has a female student and he kept flying late at night so i thought...hmmmm.... well turns out she has horse teeth, bubble butt and he really doesn't like her. she doesn't study like she is supposed to and he has to push her to do anything. after i met her, i saw why he doesn't like her.i would just sit and talk things out. just ask out of curiosity why he is gone so long. could be a simple answer.good luck and email me if you need anything.

[Roko]

don't like the signs

[AMysteryToU]

I would be suspicious also, I mean yeah I think it wasnt right that he never told you where he was. It would have been smart if he did HAVE his cellphone, what if you were having an emergency of some kind, and needed to get a hold of him, but couldnt? You guys definitely need to talk, about having the responsibility of carrying his phone at all times, its not like he didnt know not to, cause he did. Its common sense. A relationship is all about trust, and obviously he doesnt trust telling you where he is. Which is not a good thing at all. The best thing you can do right now is talk it out, and if it happens again, your possibility of cheating may be correct. Good Luck to u!!

[DeniseG]

Ask him point blank and see how he reacts. Watch his eyes.

[sandra02861]

uh oh!that seriously doesnt sound good!!!NOT TO SCARE YOU OR ANYTHING but if he had nothing to hide then he would tell you where he went and "just out" is NOT acceptable!it doesnt necessarily have to be cheater, because my ex used to do stuff like that when he was on drugs really bad becasue we knew that i could tell when he was high, so if he felt like doing coke he would "accidently"leave him cell at home or the battery would mysteriously die. i would confront him and be a serious bitch about it...men do what we let them get away with!

[shasha5922]

try bot to panic, it might be nothing, give him some space try to sty out of his way and just do things to take your mind off of your situation like reading or something, maybe he need sometime to get away from the house and think!

[princess0132]

Does he leave his cell every time? My husband forget his cell sometime but he does call me and let me know about it.Talk to him and ask if something is bothering him.

[BambiC]

When my husband goes out for groceries, he always is away for hours. It appears he also, goes to the hardware store and the sports supply store. He even sometimes stops and have coffee with his friends. I don't need to know where he is every minute he is away. It is just his nature to take his time.

[scott_v1963]

NO! it snot possibly cheating. It is getting out of the house away from incessant nagging and questions and chatter about nothing.Or, it could be that he keeps a bag of groceries at her apartment just for this purpose. He does her, smokes a cig, grabs the bag and heads home.

[Trying2FindMyself]

Could be anything from as simple as eating breakfast out, then shopping. I would just see if this is a pattern, if your that worried look at credit card reciepts. Ask him outright, tell him you are worried about your relationship.I think it's common to worry about the spouse having an affair if your not having sex like you should. Been there done that.Good luck, don't panic yet.

[Ski5761]

cheater