How will i know if my husband cheat on me after he travelled abroad? when he comes home what are the signs?

[fck02]

How will i know if my husband cheat on me after he travelled abroad? when he comes home what are the signs?

[mailrooom]

there are no signs... what happens abroad, stays abroad

[bluechick]

Talk to your husband about it ahead of time.. tell him how hurt you would be if he cheated on you. Then you have to trust him. You picked this guy, give him a little slack.

[yidlmama]

I don't think that there is any actual way to find out.....even if he did and you asked him....would he be honest???I would like to think that you should be able to trust your intuition......but hey...that doesn't always work.Best of luck to you!!

[kikipania]

If he starts going on the computer or telephone more than usual. Also, check the credit card bills to see what he's spending on. If you don't see a noticeable change in about a month, then he's probably not cheating. Good luck :)

[coutterhill]

Why are you in this relationship if you don't trust him? what are you going to do, smell his crotch?

[spygirl_1781]

Try and evaluate, is there any difference on the way he is treating you? Too nice or too cool. Then, try to ask him about what he been doing when he was there. Try to see if there is any loop hole in the story. Last but not least, check his handphone for any sms or incoming call.

[AskMe]

OMG ! Do you think he is cheating on you? My guy travels abroad for months at a time. Trust him or don't, its up to you.

[sunlightsublime6525]

matrimonial relations are based on trust. there is no way to check or prevent cheating by either spouse. if you are satisfied with your husband, it is neither necessary nor desirable to suspect his conduct. even if he cheats, it should not affect you. extra marital relations are not so bad. marriage is only a social arrangement and not a bondage.

[marylin]

If you love him, just trust him, don't ask...Next trip you better follow him.

[Jefe]

Nervousness; long, detailed explanations of things he did. General shiftiness are likely signs. But some guys hide it very easily. Not all feel guilty after cheating. So it's really an issue of trust. If you don't trust him, ask yourself why.. cuz thats a huge problem.

[phillipw]

Take my word for it.if he diden't he missedthe best chance he had.Men when abroad lookfor fun and pleasure.After all who will kmow?i guess you can go through his clothes.billfold,and other things trying to find out.OK so he telles you all about it.What are you going to do,divorce him?

[spirit_shurtugal]

Is there a reason you think your husband will be unfaithfully to you? Has he given you a reason to not trust him? If he hasn’t I wouldn’t worry about it. Honestly it may be hard to believe but not all men are dogs.

[LeonardS]

I used to have a fiance' who did quite a bit a traveling. I never will forget her asking me when we met "you will never cheat on me, right?" I thought this was a very strange question to ask so early in the relationship.As the relationship deepened, I was accused of being a womanizer. Now, my former fiance' is a knock out looking woman. She works in a professional area of the city where there are thoudsands of men. She even commutes to work where she was exposed to men on the bus and train who allegedly flirted with her on a daily basis. She claimed she was used to it, and had become amuned to it.She sold her condo, and purchased a home in the same town. I knew her former lovers know about the old condo, but wondered if they were going to know about her new home. She said they wouldn't know where she live, nor would they know her new phone number to her home or cell. According to her, this new home was going to be our sanctuary.A week after she moved in, I went to surprise her home with 2 dozen roses as a house warming gift. I usually stayed friday, Saturday, and went home Sunday evening; the day I delivered the roses was Wednesday.To make a long story short, I called her cell and home phone for hours-no answer. I was not about to leave-I live over an hour away. When evening came, Her and a former lover came out from "our sanctuary."In some cases, the accuser is the one committing the wrongful act. In your case, listen to the words, and monitor the moods swings and temperment. Notice any changes in these areas?

[spoodleroo]

there r no signs u will never know so just assume he did for he probably did

[bebe]

your intuition might help you..