Calling all guys I need some advice?

[Wondering]

My husband all of a sudden is having problems with getting hard. Let me explain.... We can be taking a shower together and he gets hard. We can be fooling around and he gets hard. Just when we get ready to "do the deed" nothing. This absoletly hurts me, it makes me feel like I can't turn on my husband. He swears up and down thats its not me, he doesn't show other signs of cheating. He tells me I'm beautiful and he loves me everyday. I just don't understand this problem that has just came to be. We been married for 2 years together for 3. And its been fine except for a month or so ago. Oh and he's only 25 its not like he's 60! Please HELP

[DanielH]

Maybe he's gay

[jtmonkey27]

How long do you wait inbetween each try? Tell him to try and not to get hard for a week. (Of course it will happen anyway) Just try again after a week. Maybe it'll work, maybe it won't. Just an idea :-)

[bal3it]

Listen maybe its somethin that hapened with him lately is the reason..He may have heard a story or somethin to make him feel negative abt sex...IF things kept on why dont he go seek advice from a doctor...GOOd luck both of U!

[Amjad85]

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[cucufate]

He needs to use some pills to control his erectile dysfunction. Perhaps at this moment the problem is not really bad, but if he doesn't take control of it, it could be a big problem in a little time.You can recommend him to use some pills like Viagra, Cialis o Levitra.I recommend you this website, where you can find more information:http://www.trustedprescriptionsonline.com/index.php/Men-s-Health/Levitra.html

[HenryS]

Sexual difficulties can begin early in a person's sex life or they may develop after an individual has previously experienced enjoyable and satisfying sex. A problem may develop gradually over time, or may occur suddenly as a total or partial inability to participate in one or more stages of the sexual act. The causes of sexual difficulties can be physical, psychological, or both.Go to this website for more info. Good Luck.http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Sexual_dysfunction

[a_lantus]

I'll start by saying i'm not that old either-18, but i think every once in a while guys have trouble getting it up. theres probably a few things u could try. tell him to hold off hitting it for a little while, try some different surroundings(indoors,outdoors-somewhere you'll both get really excited)and if it's in the shower where he gets hard, try have sex there! All in all I don't think it's either of your fault, I've got a mate, my age, couldn't stiff up for a couple of months, no matter how much he tried, but he got by eventually. Hopefully it'll pass for u both too.

[MikeG]

This is the same thing that happened to me, only it happened when i was around 19 or 20. He is probably going through andropause, or early male menapause. Yes, guys go through menapause too. It usually happens to men in their 40s and 50s. I too had a sudden change in my erections. When i was 18 or younger, i would get an erection anytime i wanted. All of a sudden when i was about 19 or 20, i realized i couldnt get hard when i wanted to anymore. As time went by, i was losing my erection during sex. IT eventually got so bad that i wasnt getting erections hardly ever, and i was losing my erection about 95% of the time my gf and i had sex. No pills are going to cure him. Viagra and other erectile dysfunction pills only mask the problem. Do you want your boyfriend to have to take a pill before sex? That means no spontaneous sex action anymore!There is nothing wrong with you. I'm sure he still finds you very sexy, but his hormones are not high enough to keep him interested. He can get hard in the shower and such, but he is burning too much testosterone at these times that his body can handle. That is why he loses it when it comes time for sex. Same thing happened to me.First off, he needs to see a doctor. He needs to get his hormones checked. Get testosterone, DHEA, Growth hormone (if possible) and estrogen and estrodial checked. There could either be an inbalance (too much estrogen causes testosterone to decline) or just a slow output by his pituatary gland. Also check LH and FSH levels (signals from brain to testicals to make testosterone).Im sure in his case, his levels will be in normal range. Conventional doctors wont treat him if he is in normal range, and im sure if they decided to, insurance wouldnt pay for it.I am getting bio-identical hormone replacement therapy. The hormones are plant derived and altered to be the exact same hormone as men produce, hence the name "bio-identical". They are much safer than the synthetic ones used by most conventional doctors. It is also not that expensive. The cost per hormone is about 30 bucks a month. However, there is a few charges of a couple hundred bucks to get the tests done and to get rechecked every 6 months, but it is completely worth it!Research a little bit about bio-identical hormone therapy at,www.renewman.comA man can go through andropause at early ages. You dont have to be 40 or 50 or 60 years old to be considered for hormone therapy. IT happened to me at 19 and 20. It sounds like the same exact thing.

[JimR]

Please understand that our little friend has a mind of his own. He will do what he wants, regardless of our desires. It's one of the hazards of being male. The circumstances you describe sound like sexual stage fright; as long as it's just play time, it stiffens up fine. As soon as it's "proof" time, test anxiety steps in and shuts everything down. It could be something else interfering that he's not even aware of. Please don't assume something negative about yourself or him. If it is performance anxiety, your reproachfulness will only intensify the problem. You could try taking the pressure off by telling him that you love him, you're in the mood, and you're ready whenever he's ready - no rush; and if he's not up for it tonight, you're happy to try tomorrow night (or maybe morning?!) If this keeps cropping up, consult a marriage counselor; they're very good at uncovering the source of such problems and resolving your difficulties.

[ToniR]

He is having mental problems obvisiously. I would recommended an all natural supplement. There are plenty out there, its just personal perference of which one suits you. I would try out a months supply or so to see if within a couple days they start to be effective. Theres a website called http://www.hughs-reviews.com where you can save up to $30 on enhancement so I would definitly check that place out.Good luck

[Recon]

Maybe he masturbates to porn too much. I don't mean to sound rude by saying that, but that may be the case. When you are with the same partner for a while, things kinda get "routine" and boring. Try different things to "spice it up" a bit.