how do you know if your husband is cheating on you if hes always here but the signs are still there?

[Ka-LynnW]

how do you know if your husband is cheating on you if hes always here but the signs are still there?

[Beatngu]

With out that much information here, its hard to answer... so best I can give you is hire a PI.

[DanielL]

If he's always here, then how could he possibly be cheating on you? Of course, my ex used to always be around, but she was having an affair with someone at work and they would simply sneak off during the day or leave early and goto a hotel. It's been my experience that if there's smoke, there's fire. Trust your instincts, they're usually right. Take some actions to snoop on him.

[outbackbob89506]

If he's always here he can't be there. He can't be in two places at once.

[Chrystal]

Maybe it's your insecurities that are making you believe your husband is cheating on you. Sometimes don't' want sex or become moody or want to be alone more because of family or job related stress. The best thing for you to do is talk to him. Ask him what is going on, let him know that you care and want to be there for him.

[9ball]

well if he's always there then when could he be cheating? I think u are one of those women that they have a loyal man yet u think he's cheating on u. Have some selfconfidence and what exactly do u mean the signs are there? what are these "signs" u speak of?

[SandraH5251]

Like they have said, if he is always with you how can he cheat but if you see the signs ? whatever that means then maybe he is thinking about it anyhow. Maybe you should look around and see what is missing in your marriage and if you are willing to make it not missing. If he hasn't started cheating I would do what I could to nip it in the bud because once someone cheats, all bets on having respect for each other are off. Good luck....S

[redpeach_mi0361]

you know, i was in a similar situation not too long ago. my hubby always came home and never really had time to cheat on me, but he was. he had an "emotional" affair for over 4 months. signs are not there for no reason.

[AllenM]

Signs of a cheating spouse:- Sudden increase in time away from home - Decreased sexual interest with you- Cheating spouse is often distracted and day dreaming - Cheating husband or wife is often “unavailable” while at work - Cheating spouse attends new functions outside of work or not wants to go alone - Cell phone calls from you are not returned in timely fashion - Cheating spouse leaves house or goes to other rooms to talk on the telephone - Cheating spouse uses computer alone and secretly - Cheating spouse asks about your schedule more often than usual - Mileage on car is high yet he / she reports only short distance errands - Clothes smell of perfume or cologne Cheating spouse gets his / her laundry done independently - Unexplained payments on bank statements Cheating spouse has more cash on hand without accountability - Cell phone bills contain calls with long duration - Cheating spouse now has a phone card but never used one before- Cheating wife or husband has unexplained receipts in wallet or purse - Cheating spouse has suspicious phone voice-mail messages - Cheating spouse has suspicious cell phone numbers stored or dialed- Internet web browser history list (this is a record of web sites visited) contains unusual sites - Cheating spouse begins to use new or free e-mail account- Cheating spouse is suddenly deleting e-mail messages

[elvlayarvvi4589]

is he messing around w/ someone at work? find out... better to know than not to know and get aids later =(... he could be cheating online... say you go to the store and come home and he's in the shower, means he was probably messing around w/ a lady online... cheating is cheating... if I were you I would get to the bottom of this and dump the jerk if he's cheatin' on you even if it's an online affair... or perhaps he has a neighbor lady over when you are gone... he may be home but that does not mean he's faithful, either... find out!

[I_Love_McRedneck6161]

Maybe you're just paranoid, or maybe this is a sign that you need marriage counseling.Whatout knowing the *signs*, it's impossible to tell.