None of my business, but - it is my family.....?

[Nicoleio3]

So here's the thing i'm 18, my parents have been divorced since i was about 11 my mom cheated on my dad, and then married the guy, then that left my dad heartbroken, and my little sister and i had to watch it, we knew he wasnt exactly happy. He's been dating on and off since then but no one he'd ever tell us about, the only reason we knew is because he'd leave emails open, Well just last year he started dating someone seriously that my aunt and uncle had set him up with and well they've beentogether for almost a year now. We Love her, i was scared to deal with my dad dating someone because of all the drama wiht my mom and her husband. but my dad spends all of his time w/ her and for sweetest day there was a card from her on the tv and then the day after sweetest day we assumed he took her to dinner and a movie but then there was a card and a dvd there and the card was signed "Love ya, Sexy suzie"my sister and i confronted him, he just turned and walked away. What the hell is going on?

[taker]

u cant b all up on his business. respect his relationships as he does yours.

[suisseshoggi]

well, i think when the time is right, he will tell you... maybe he is not comfortable talking about his personal life with you, or does not want you to get attached to someone right now because you were hurt in the past... whatever his reasons, they are his... you can ask gently and see if he will give you answers, but, if not, i would say drop it for now....

[deborahl6857]

I can completely understand that you would be curious - BUT . . . it really isn't any of your business and you should wait for him to confide in you - or not . . .

[vtx1800retro]

why confront him? Let him go at this at his own pace, i doubt he wants to tie the know unles he is absolutely certain its the right person and right time.

[JENNIFERE]

Your right...Its none of your business.Your Dad is an adult and needs privacy.

[mollys]

your right, its none of your business, you are grown now, get on with your life and let him be, hasnt he had enough trials yet for you?

[tjnstlouismo7563]

You're right its not your business. In particular its not your business to read anyone else's emails or personal mail. I suggest you apologize to your father and tell him that's its ok with you that he's seeing Suzy because you love her. See if that doesn't break the ice.

[sexyswells42]

Stay in a child's place, that has nothing to do with you and your sister. Your dad is a grown man he is doing what he wants to do you & your sister have no right getting in his affairs. If it's meantt for you to know he will tell you.