I am with a man that has broke a thousand hearts. is mine safe?

[soldurs]

Me and my man have known eachother for a long time amd before we were together we were identical. He has never been faithful to a girl ever and that includes his ex wife and I have never been faithful to a man which includes my ex husband. We both come from very bad past and both act the exsact same way... we are identical in the way we have treated people and what we like , want , and have been through. we have been together for a year and this is the longest faithful relationship we have both been in infact we both chased everyone else away. we both are signed to the same modeling company and he used to break a thousand hearts... i was more careful and told everyone i got envolved with not to fall in love... So my question is... do you think that he will cheat down the road since he has never been able to be faithful?JUST TO ALL OF YOU THAT LEFT INSULTING COMMENTS... I ASKED A QUESTION FOR OPINIONS NOT MEAN NAMES... YOU DONT KNOW ANYTHING AND I HAVE ALWAYS BEEN HONEST WITH THE MEN I WAS WITH LETTING THEM KNOW HOW I WAS FROM DAY ONE AND TELLING THEM NOT TO LOVE ME CAUSE I DIDNT LOVE ME!! NOR DO YOU KNOW MY PAST , SOUNDS LIKE YOU ALL JUST GOT SOME BITTERNESS.. BEEN HURT MUCH? SO DONT CALL NAMES IF YOU DONT KNOW WHAT THE FUC K YOU ARE TALKING ABOUT.. TO THE OTHERS THANK YOU!!

[nicoley]

no your not safe if hes broken that many heats ur screwed

[monicanena]

Yes, he'll cheat if he isn't already.

[merrybodner]

Probably.

[janicajayne]

He has as much chance at cheating as you do. You both seemed to have made a habit of it, so I would think you both will do it.

[kinky-kylie]

dont be daft. he obz has no heart what so ever so y would he care bout yours

[BabeHeart7014]

Either of you may cheat, especially if it's been your m.o. before.Baaaaaaad karma, and remember what goes around, comes around. By having cheated in the past, you okay'd yourselves to be cheated upon.This may be a match made in heaven or hell...or a bit of both. Prepare for a rollercoaster ride.

[aheartsobig8318]

I think you already know the answer to that. of course he will cheat.

[aaron_tbrook]

I doubt that, the fat pigs go get bigger dicks; in my opinion

[GRAHAMS]

Of course he will cheat, he's a man. All men cheat given the chance.

[LimeyinAmerica]

Urrrrmmmmmm, yes and so will you. Figure it out, once the newness wears off you or he will be in the sack quicker than a bad taco from the Bell.

[sonofstar]

I think, given his track record, it's a given. Seems that he's pulling a really good one on you, too. You're better off discovering why you don't want anyone faithful close to you, why you don't want that level of intimacy. Learning about what's stopping you from getting close to a man (who will be faithful and cherish you) is your best protection from a broken heart, and your best luck and finding a good man.

[BMOC]

Of course; once a cheater more than likely they will always have that temptation. Cheaters are usually looking for the next best thing.

[startwinkle057825]

I think history does tend to repeat itself. I've seen very few men that prove "once a cheater, always a cheater" to be wrong. How are you sure he has been faithful so far? Are you with him 24/7? Sorry, but I'm sure he didn't TELL his wife when he was cheating on her. Be very careful!!!

[radar_lover_2007]

i think both of you will , if you haven't already

[miacrash]

you don't have to look further than his history to tell you what will happen to you in the future. people do not change from relationship to relationship. people have a tendancy to repeat the same patterns and sometimes women feel as if they can "fix" a man. that he won't cheat on her the way he cheated omn the others. please don't waste your time.

[SweetPandemonium]

what goes around, comes aroundonce a cheater, always a cheater

[Doogin]

Short answer? Yep. One or both of you will cheat eventually. You're both in an industry that is rife with infidelity, and you both have the past to prove it. I don't know what to tell you but good luck...

[JamesWatkin5565]

Probably. The best indication of future behavior is past behavior. Unless a person goes through some therapy and makes a true effort to change the odds are they won't. And that goes for you too. If you two really want a shot at forever and want to change you should go to couples counseling and individual counseling and work on your issues. It is hard, but if you love someone you will jump through fire for them, so therapy is nothing.

[Grace1963]

I think you are a match made in heaven and that you will both eventually cheat. I think you deserve each other and hopefully one day you will both know how you made those people feel that you cheated on. People like you two make me sick. You don't feel and you don't know what love is. Shame on you two. You need counseling and you need to grow up.

[Tim]

both of you are sad

[juicy_satsuma]

Yes..... and so will you. You both seem incapable of staying faithful regardless of whether you are truely madly deeply in love with someone. If your both happy to let the other one be unfaithful then thats fine tho.... each to there own. But I truely believe you might be crazy for each other but you will still both cheat. You must both be incredibly vain and selfish.

[Blue2731]

sounds like you were skanking around too, is his safe?

[marty7130]

Read what you wrote, you probably can answer your own question about your man and yourself.....

[d2]

If you think you will not be one in thousands, are you willing to give it one in tens of thousands. What a rock he won't be for you. You will bleed and bleed and bleed until the blood has turned to water. Have you not heard of the leopard's spots?

[skiingted]

Dauhhhh!! You deserve one another. Neither of you have a heart.

[isabella1973]

i dont think he will remain faithful with you..

[4scar]

This is the longest faithful relationship you have been in, you don't know about him . Take things in stride and when it's time to move on , don't look back .

[HollyS]

You are not safe the thoughts are always in the back of the mind just probably havent found the one to cheat with thats if he hasnt already!!!

[oconnorboy101]

No, i dont think he will cheat on you expesially if he's been with you for a year. He usually breaks peoples hearts, but if you've been with someone that long he truly loves you and he wants to be with you forever.

[pypers_son]

You both sound like self-centered, self-indulgent, narcissistic, whining little minxes. Stick with him. The two of you deserve each other. Just, please, don't have children.

[bjohnek]

yes. cheaters are just that they dont know what for sure they want it changes with the wind so give him your heart he may not intentionally break it but it will get broken be careful my friend you are treding on very thin ice .but good luck to you.

[Stephie13]

If I am going to answer, I want to be truthful. People can change and sometimes do so I cant really tell ya the old saying once a cheater, always a cheater is always 100% true. If you have been together for a year and both of you have already been 100% faithful, I would say to stay focused on the things that you are doing right and dont look back on previous behavior and relationships. If you are both in this to make it work, it can still happen, but if either one of you gets bored with the relationship or stops giving it your all, I guess there could be a chance that one of you could cheat. Good Luck, I hope things work out for you both.

[missindabeach]

old habits don't die easily. After the new wears off, do you think theres a possibility you could be unfaithful to him? Usually people don't change drastically, if at all.

[mominvalp]

Old habits are hard to break, but not impossible.I wouldn't let my guard down just to be on the safe side though. What I mean by that is, if you sense something is not right, see it for what it is, don't try and look the other way.A relationship in the field you both work in will present problems as well.I'm sure there is alot of temptation but if you guys have made it a year, who knows? Whatever happens, this has been good for both of you, right??

[janine]

You should know better if he would cheat on you. Women have this instinct you know. But you said it yourself...that in your past relationships, you haVe told everyone you got involved with not to fall in love. You are used to this kind of situation so why worry? Unless you have started falling for this guy. Just be careful and be prepared if he breaks your heart.

[ME2029]

hard call! my guy was always the cheater in the relationship, and he realized after i called him out on cheeting that he has a problem with relationips. and he seeked help and now we are moving fwd.

[DeltaD]

One or both of you will probably eventually cheat. You can head this off by agreeing to be honest about the fact that neither of you are wired "monogamous". You might learn more about polyamory and how you can still have a primary relationship with each other while being honest and open when you fall for other people. It beats sneaking around.

[sir_b_man]

What makes you think that he has been faithful so far? How do you know that he hasn't been practicing his old habits behind your back? You're not with him 24/7, are you?Although the term "once a cheater always a cheater" doesn't apply to everyone, it applies to most people. Everyone deserves a second chance, but in this case, it's not a second chance with your man. The number is probably high up there... depending on how many woman he cheated in the past.I have never cheated in my life (and have never been cheated either, thank God), so I don't know the reason behind it other than the two obvious ones (physical attraction to another person or taking revenge). But you're more experienced in this matter since you have personal experiences on this in the past. If you observe carefully, you can probably tell without much effort if someone is going to cheat on you. Maybe from the way he's talking to you and others? Maybe from the way he's looking at you and others? Maybe from the way he touches (holding hand, kissing, etc.) you and others?If I were you, I would never commit my heart fully to a past cheater. I'd rather date a less attractive person (but still acceptable to my standard of course) with a heart of gold.

[luvbev2]

Run, don't walk away from this guy.

[radharani]

i have, so what. that's what teachers do

[JustU]

girl you sound stupisd and you must have low self esteem and dont care mush about your body and dont love GOD. cheating on your husband is a sin thats why you dont have a husband now and you have to settle for anything now and yes hes anything you both are to stupid losers.

[sweetdivine]

Him being faithful is highly unlikely. As they say and as society has accepted....a man can love his partner to death but he will cheat. Old habits die hard, I know, but people do change. So my advice is to give him the benefit of the doubt cause people do change and maybe, just maybe he will be faithful to you. Just make sure you satisfy him completely so he doesn't desire to get it elsewhere.