View Full Version : Anyone got back together with their ex-spouse?
NoSht
04-22-2006, 07:40 PM
My husband woke up one morning and asked for a divorce. I signed the papers not wanting anything else. I loved him enough that I'd rather have him happy with someone else than miserable with me. Anyway, he wasn't cheating on me, just wasn't sure if he wanted to be tied down even though the marriage was his idea. The divorce is not final yet. We act very civil around each other and would like to think as us still being friends. My question is if anyone out there has been separated from their spouse and got back together, and if they have, what was the outcome. (I'm not getting my hopes up about getting back with him I'm just curious.)
okimreadynow
04-24-2006, 05:37 PM
Yes, that would be me, and to tell you the truth, it doesn't work very well.Were always bouncing back and forth as to should we divorce or shouldn't we, it's nuts.We love each other but can't seem to live together, I always wonder how it will end up, sometimes I feel like i'm just wasting years.
my heart beats faster when i hear your name...i feel my confidence slippin away..... I thought i was doin fine..about to get you off my mind....then im wrapped ...around ...your pretty little finger again ..... its been forever.. since I layed down in your arms...I see no good reason still Im tangeled in your charm...you catch my eye my heart is pounding deep inside ...I see your face and then Im wrapped ...around ...your pretty little finger again... How long has it ben?.
Brian
04-28-2006, 01:30 PM
you ever burn you hand on the stove top? I have, but I remember the feeling of it and don't care to relive it all over again. if you friends now, keep it that way. my ex-wife and I are friend too, but I keep far away from her burners...
junkyarddogfan
04-30-2006, 11:26 AM
honestly i would never go back 2 any of them. they all became ex's 4 a reason. a leopard can't change its spots. happy in marriage today, not happy tomorrow, happy in marriage again the next day, not happy a month later, happy in marriage again in 6mths...well u get the pict.
JayBee
05-02-2006, 09:23 AM
I personaly have not but.....two of my very good friends have.They divorced and were seperated for a few years. They remarried and now have a 15 year old Son and a 15 year old Foster Child......I vacation with them.....spend Holidays with them.....they are an awesome family.....going on 18 years!!!!
janetrmi
05-04-2006, 07:20 AM
The secret to a successful marriage and even having a marriage restored is to put God first in your life. Is this your covenant spouse, I encourage you to stand for your marriage. Your husband is being blinded by Satan.Please check out Bob and Charlyne Steinkamp. They have a restored marriage after being divorced for about two years. They have a website and send devotionals everyday encouraging men and women to stand for their marriage and their spouse's salvation. Check out their archives.https://rejoiceministries.org/devotion.phpI highly recommend that you sign up for Doreen's Devotionals called Doreen's Daily Delights.. These are awesome. http://marriagerestorationministries.org/Here's another website for people standing for their marriages. http://www.faithandmarriage.com/Check out Jimmy and Karen Evans. They have a weekly tv show that discusses marriage. Their shows are on the internet that you can watch. Jimmy is excellent. Jimmy gives very practical guides on how to have a successful marriage. http://www.marriagetoday.org/Also check out this link concerning divorce and remarriage. I think you will be surprised. Many churches are blinded to the truth and even encourage people to divorce. Satan is tearing the church and marriages apart.http://www.biblicalresearchreports.com/divorceandremarriage.php#hatedivorceGood luck and God Bless!
alpla
05-06-2006, 05:16 AM
Am afraid once the word DIVORCE is entered there's no way back; specially if followed by separation.In a normal marriage this has no place.Have seen too many cases, just never works.
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