husband wont believe me?

[HerR]

the other day i was looking online and there was an article on why husbands cheat. ive always trusted my husband but just looked at it just because i was bored. i guess there was a pop up or something behind it that i didnt see and it said "dating a married person" and it had a whole thing about dating a married person and had a bunch of articles on it. my husband found it and got the wrong idea and is now mad at me. i told him i hadnt seen that page before and dont know how it got there. he says he "believes" me but still acts mad. do you think he is overreacting and what can i do to make him believe me

[WJ]

I definitely overreacting. If you have never given him any reason to mistrust you then he really needs to get over finding an ad or article online.

[kokopelli]

You should have said something to the effect that you were not looking at it and so HE must have been looking at it. And so, why was HE looking at it? You should be the one who is mad.

[MaureenS]

You can't "make" him believe you. This was just unfortunate. The best thing you can do is drop it. Eventually he'll realise that you were telling the truth and he'll forget it. If you keep talking about it, it will make you seem guilty.

[CorrineB6442]

He'll get over it in a few days. Dont worry

[PinkFloyd1962]

tell him it was supposed to be a surprise, that you were investigating because you want to write a fiction novel, a romance fiction whatever...that might calm down the beast...good luck

[bebop_music]

he probably doesnt want to believe you because HE is the guilty one. turn it around on him

[ongkar]

Just be absolutely totally honest and tell him the truth and let it go and don't need anything back from him. He feels the power of you needing him to believe you and frankly...if you know you're truthful..whay do you. Don't play the game. Say your peace and let it go.

[TheG-Man]

Well girl you have one tough decission to make. thats to tell him the truth and show him the article you where reading, if you still have it. If not, then leave it as is he'll get over it in time, just make sure there's nothing else like that around the house again.

[Lear]

Well if your not guilty then just show him the history on your computer. If the article isn't in the history it is obviously a pop up.........

[Chanch]

Don't give in to his crybaby crap. You do not have to prove yourself. You've expalined the situation & that should be sufficient. The more you feed into his insecurities the more you'll see of that behavior. You teach people how to treat you...don't forget that.