Where do girls most often meet [good] guys?

[BrookeL]

So I've been thinking that it might in fact help to have a sort of "rebound" guy to take my mind off my husband cheating on me and leaving me. I have 3 kids though and I'm with them so much, it would be hard, if I did happen to meet someone, keeping them from not knowing each other. Of course, I wouldn't introduce him as anything other than a friend, and I know it could be confusing if they were to see us kiss... Or am I wrong about this? I just don't want to have to limit my contact to evenings only (when kids are in bed), esp. because that's when I study! Meanwhile, its easy peasy for "the cheater" because he moved out and can do whatever, with whomever, whenever he pleases. So how do I go about meeting someone? Online is OUT... There is a cute guy at school, but he's so-so... I don't want to settle, but I don't want to be picky. Listen to me, I'm so confused! Help please.No, not just for sex (though its been awhile!). Just to have the good feelings you get from having a companion (for lack of a better word)

[rowdyrick]

Are you looking for lust (sex) or companionship?

[jay5274]

On Yahoo Answers ofcourse, the begin by getting to know eather by emailing than IM(lol)

[Mary6476]

That must be tough. Sorry you had to go through that.In my opinion, you should probably stay away from meeting anyone right now, especially in this delicate state. Being cheated on knocks the wind out of you, and most women who immediately pursue a suitor after a breakup will react sensitively to normal dating behavior. Don't settle for anything less than what you are wanting. If you want a good guy, than you must focus on that. It may take longer, but it is so worth the wait! Settling for an average joe just to nurse your emotional, (and physical) needs tends to be alot worse than being alone.