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[hurting]

I caught my husband in internet porn chat sites...I feel it is cheating he said it meant nonthing. He did stop, but I went in and found e-mails that were sent back and forth and I can't get it out of my head. I feel it was cheating. He tells me to get over it..it meant nothing and he has move on and so should I...My question is do I have the right to feel hurt and need time and patience to heal from this or am I over reacting? he was talking and sexual with three certain girls for two months online

[arcticdancer]

i would feel the same way you do. give yourself time. i hope for your sake he will stop this nonsense and will be more sensitive to your feelings and your needs.

[girl]

well u have the right to be hurt. i'm sorry but i am the wrong person to ask this. but i would tell him how it hurt u. and go online and plock all the porn sites. just kidding. but that is all the advice i can give u. there are better advicegiver than me. but good luck hun. i kno how u feel even thuogh im not married yet. or had tht happen to me. good luck baby :(