My Husband is driving me insaine!!!?

[x_farrah_x]

Okay here goes...My husband always thinks I am cheating and I sware I never have ever!!! I was just looking at our bank statements online and it says that he went to the same McDonalds TWICE IN ONE DAY!!! He told me he did, I was 2 hrs away in my hometown because I was highly pissed at him for the accusations etc. He said he went to McDonalds twice and ordered food of course it shows that online....But his ex gf worked or works there not sure if she does currently still work there or not? Clueless here! But do you think he got mad because I skipped town highly pissed and went to see if she was there or not???? I mean he said he never had sex with her because she was extremely church-going and all...But I l left home when he was at work and left a note saying heres a two-day free trial period...I was meaning to see if he wanted me or not...You know? Nothing sexual of course! So and the other night we made up and before he left for work the next night he mafe me sware I've never cheated?Oh, sorry! My question was is he cheating? He works in the coal mines in p.a. and from then he comes straight home and is with me 24/7 so how could he been cheating on me? Is it possible he went to that special mc'ds location to try to run into her???? Do u think he could be just insecure and self concious thats why he is accusing me? Because there's never ever been a time he could have cheated on me I don't work and am always with him when he isnt working...and mind u all his coworkers are men....Yea u people dont know jack sh!t ...u read a 10 second question and think u can give me the right answer...I guess this all was just a waste of my time... for the responses I got no i do not follow my hubby all around town, ive NEVER followed him ever... He's not cheated on me he is just very insecure because he's always been cheated on... His own mom loves to go out and see all the men every night and flirt...perhaps thats why she is divorced...yep! his dad told me horror stories about her...So u think I'm gonna go pay some ass hole to talk to me and counsel me ur all nuts!

[charge6776]

Sorry but you guys both need to show a bit of maturity and learn to trust each other - because without trust in a marriage - you guys are doomed.

[MelindaB]

Wow Mine doesnt do that but he does drive me insaine its a mans thing I guess do the same to him he will not like it

[JackChan]

Wow.. I have the perfect answer for you.The reason he is being so insecure with you is because he is feeling guilty about cheating on you with her.I'm really sorry.

[UpAtNight]

Dude is insecure. I never really found insecurity attractive in a man. And I never understand why other chicks put up with it.Oh, and he's cheating on you btw.

[H-townbaby]

well if he is that touchy on the subject maybe he is worried that you would cheat because he has..i mean i don't want to start problems but a lot of men do it. They start a fight just because they want you to leave or take off so they can have time for the other woman. I mean and if he is that way it's either because he has cheated or is and he thinks he will be done the same way. Or he has been cheated on a lot before. It all depends maybe he is cheating maybe not. Maybe it was just a coincidence that he went to that Macdonald's twice in one day (uuuhhh). Also if you are driving him nuts too it may drive him into his ex's arms too.

[PaulM9725]

Sounds l ike you are driving your husband insane as well - your insecurities will destroy your relationship. If he was seeing this girl who might or might not be working in mcdonalds do you think he'd be buying food in there with a card so it could be seen on hid bank statement?You have an obsession with owning each other - in a true love relationship you want to give yoruself to each other, not take ownership.Both of you need to grow up, big time.

[sweetiepie_1712]

i agreed with jacky chan too. he is feeling insecure and that's y it happened. like u feel like u cannot trust him anymore..

[neveru]

you sound like the insecure one.well him too. you are a perfect match, if hes driving you crazy, I suggest you tell him to pull over and let you drive a while.I would be more concerned he actually eats a mcdonalds, thats the worst garbage you can stuff down your throat.

[carriegreen133224]

Personally, I think you are the one with the trust issue here, he works with all men, and in his line of duty, yes, they do get hungry, a lot, my husband is in construction, and he is starving, he has to feed those muscles of his!!!! :)Your husband sounds like he is being totally honest with you, I think you should go into therapy, and get help, to get over your trust issues, your man loves you, you have to realize that, and trust him.You have got to get into counseling, so you can lead a happy trusting life with your husband and stop getting mad and leaving and following him all around town because you think he is cheating.Your husband has a risky job, be thankful he comes home every day, and do not be mad at him, get help, with what has been going on in our coal mines these days, you better tell him every morning before he leaves for work you love him, and get help for yourself.Please get help, before you regret having these feelings!!!!!!Your husband is risking his life every day in a very risky job to support the woman he loves...YOU!!!!!!!

[GoGORessa]

Maybe he went there to eat. You both need to get a life. Somebody is cheating, have cheated or is thinking about cheating. Otherwise it wouldn't be the topic of the day in your house. This story you are giving about 2 day trail is silly. You people are married and by the reading of this, you really should have grown up a bit before entering into the marriage.