The little things add up.

[starshimmer]

Have you ever told yourself that you're just crazy for thinking the things you have? About your husband having an affair, I mean. It was just little things that got my attention the most...like him taking extra time to get dressed, going into work on weekends (that wasn't unusual, it was just his "sneaky" way of acting that got my attention) his sudden irritable demeanor...

I started listening more, asking more questions, watching more...Something was going on, but I didn't really consider him cheating. It took more concrete evidence before I found I had to accept that.

[SerenBaker]

For me, it was his using alt/tab to get out of the chat window when I came into the room unexpectedly. That was a big tipoff to me that something wasn't right.

[alexis]

When in the relationship with my ex, the cheater, the jerk I tend to still call him to this day. It was when the sex stopped, I mean he was in his prime, and we went over 300x in years, then just one day it stopped, completely random, and went on like that for about a month. I knew it, I didn't care so much, at the time we worked together, and I needed the money, so I dealt with him being gone, then I saved up and just left.

[lie_lee]

I can't understand what they get "outside" ?
which took them to hours to get ready before they go out.
what could be "more " than a family