Here's a question for men who cheated on their ex wives only please!?

[somebodyspecial2943]

Men...if your wife divorced you because you were unfaithful, how did that affect your life? How do you feel about her now? Did you want the divorce or do you regret what you did? Do you ever wish you could have her back? If you did would you ever tell her so? Basically, I'm just trying to find out what the experience was like for you. I am in the middle of divorcing my unfaithful husband and I was just trying to get some perspective on the other end of this ordeal.

[PrincessB]

Theres two sides to every story.Thats why their called EX'S.

[katydid5785]

I'm not a man who cheated but my ex did. He regretted it. After I left, he became suicidal and promised me the world. I wish he would have been half as attentive during the marriage. It may have worked, had he not cheated.

[cyranonew]

I never ever wanted to go back. Cheating was wrong, but the woman was right, and she is now my wife.

[SineW]

I was unfaithful. I filed for the divorce. She wants me to stay, I guess, so that she may torture me for the rest of my life. The only way I could ever go back is if the men in black would zap both of us so that we couldn't remember any of the bad times...I wish she would have filed on me instead of torturing me with the guilt trip.You are a good woman.

[xxgq]

I was a man who was unfaithful to my wife. That was after years of her being unfaithful to me. Still what I did was not right becuase she cheated. As far as my feeling about the divorce. I am glad its over, my life is has gotten so much better, I have grown as a person and better for it. I do not even speak to her anymore, we live in different states and have only spoken for a matter of minutes that was over 3 years ago.

[love_big_women23]

I did. If I had it to do over, I wouldn't. In my minds eye the relationship was over--over in the sense of their being mutual love, and a sense that I was wallpaper she'd grown used to. No look in her eyes of that bond that your supposed to have in a relationship, and if honest she never had it. I guess I thought myself so unworthy to find a mate in life, that I pretended as if she did have that. I wouldn't go back because I know nothing would be any different. I wouldn't want to tell her as I wouldn't want to create more pain.