What is it with husbands not wanting be approach to be kissed?

[mariaq]

my husband gets nervous when i approach him and just want to kiss him and then he makes up excuses not too. i don't understand why? i just want a kiss and i know for a fact he is not guy or is being unfaithful. help.

[EgosTwin]

brush your teeth sometimes

[Josie]

Maybe he's paranoid about something, his breath stinking maybe?

[Palm]

he...idk

[BOB]

I would love for my wife to still have affection for me....he has problems............

[Jacks036]

Some people are just not affectionate. He knows there is no sex to follow unless you are in the bed when you try to kiss him.

[DrEvil]

Tell him how you feel about this. Ask him why.

[K]

maybe he is paranoid of his breath?I know when my hubby goes into kiss me and I have bad bad breath or a nasty taste in my mouth I find excuses not to kiss him because if I say my breath stinks he says well go brush your teeth I get lazy and dont want to stop what I am doing to go brush my teeth.......maybe he is the same way try giving him those listerine strips you put on your tongue... or maybe he doesnt like your breath (not sounding mean just a thought)

[JeffG]

There could be a hundred reasons ranging from his insecurities to serious problems, but you'll never know if you don't ask him. You don't want to be confrontational about it, but you need to let him know that it bothers you and that you think that you deserve an honest answer.

[RichardJ]

Ummm, this is not a "Husbands" issue, its a "You and your husband issue." If you're husband is cold, you need to talk with him and discuss your feelings and problems- That is what marriage is about.