cell phone records how to obtain them when your husband is the only name on bill.?

[jalaney_delaney]

He works and lives 12 hrs away and have heard for yrs (we have been togethr 15 yrs) that is has been unfaithful. His family knows what he is doing and cover for him it is sickening. Instead of telling me what he is doing they give advice as in "you are better without him go make a life for yourself and kids. which we have 2 4 and 13. anyway he is on his way home for the weekend and i would love to see his cell bill. That would lead me in the "oh so right" but hurtful right direction.

[lonis_werebear]

You could ring up the cell phone company and get a male friend/relative to pretend to be your husband, then get them to send a bill to your adress. or email you a copy to your email adress (if it is obiviously a female adress make a new one). Probably not ethical but you deserve to know.

[bestadvicechick1141]

Honey, why are you waiting for proof on something you know deep down to be true and his own family is telling you to leave him?! He doesn't even LIVE WITH YOU? What kind of marriage is this? Of course he's cheating on you honey....he has a completely separate life from you. Since you don't live together, it would be very difficult to sneak a peak at his cell phone bill. And even if you did, what would that accomplish? Like you'd recognize his girlfriend's phone number? I doubt it.

[Lioness2189]

Sounds like you know he's cheating but don't want to accept it. Not sure if cell phone records would make you change my mind, since when you feel this way, the guy can easily manipulate and "justify" the numbers and person. But to answer your question, the best bet would be to access his account online. Do you you have his social security number? Some phone companies allow you to change the password, if you have all the personal information, BUT they send a notification to your cell phone, so you need to do this while he's asleep and you have access to his cell phone. The problem is once you change it, he'll know it's been changed and suspect you to have done it etc.If I were you, I would just make him feel real comfortable and ask him questions in a non-threatening way when his guards are down (when you two are just in bed laying etc)...you can usually tell by the behavior, and the non-verbal language if he's lying....although I know it sounds like you need hardcore evidence.Good luck either way. I know it's a stressful situation.

[ColleenG]

Where does He have the bill delivered too? If it's home and you don't open it due to respect issues... Then wait for the trash!!!When He gets in. When you go to bed. Wait until He is sleeping. Get the phone and look threw it. That will tell you alot. Girls #'s and Tex's too.... My Sister just went threw this too. She caught him....As for his Family, They aren't... If they would know right from wrong.Good Luck.....

[alice]

set up an online access to his phone with the phone company . have you seen the program called cheaters , contact them they will investigate , or you and a girlfriend stakehim out your self and take some pics then have them to show him when you confront him.......cowboy up and find the facts you dont dont need a cell phone bill for that you can follow him your self and find the truth , that is if you really want to know the truth....if you find out he is cheating 4 sure ..before you act on that make sure you set set your self up good and take all the cash in the checking savings ect. STASH IT for you and kids leave him nothing !!!!!!

[superspy71]

here goes....1st set up a fake email address he will not know. maybe a different address, such as if he knows you use yahoo, set it up under gmail or aol....whatever. what type of cell does he have from what company? go to that company's website & see what type of info you need to set up an online account. for example if he has a nextel phone you need the SIM# to set up the account which is located under the battery in the phone itself. you may need his SS#. if you go thru his cell to check numbers, sometimes men use fake names for womans cell #'s. try to get ALL the numbers & take it from there. try to obtain his passcode to check his messages also. i hope i helped!!!!