My affair with a married man?

[ShanelleB]

Ive been unfaithful to my Husband and I don't have the guts to tell him whats going on..Im seeing his brother and its being going for a year now...His brother is unhappily married with twins on the way...I dont have any children to my current husband...His brother and I are planning to run away and leave his pregnant wife and leave my husband as well...we are so in love everytime we're together it brings out the best of us by being together...Im worried about my happiness thats all I care about...as far as his wife she will get over it...my husband is boring when it comes to sex...so with that it drives me nutts when Im with his brother...I have long term plans but its all falling into places..no kids will get in my way I guarantee it...the old days they say "you have to stay with her for the childrens sake" but I think its wrong to do that...individual happiness is what everyone seeks..children will grow up maybe do the same thing on what im doing and they will grow up getting over it

[Diamond7497]

both of yall are crazy

[mlbbell]

You are really putting yourself before the happiness of 2 children? You are about the most selfish person I think I've ever come across to flat out say you are only worried about you.If you aren't happy with your husband then leave him, but you need to stop seeing a married man, especially one with kids on the way.Karma's a bitch and trust me one day you will get yours. Do you really think this man that is willing to leave his kids for you is going to be faithful to you? Good luck, because you need it.

[poodlemom8700]

first, what was your question? second, yeah, you sound like a real winner!! i bet hes proud to take you home to mama...oh, i forgot! hes your BROTHER IN LAW, YOU CANT!! i hope you do know about karma...

[smartypants]

this is a made up question. unhappily married but manages to be expecting twins, and, no kids to get in the way. your story is tripping all over itself, sorry.

[JoeS]

ugh grow up!I'm with smarty. If he is unhappy how did his wife get pregnant with twins?

[rammunizsbcglobalnet]

JUST DO IT!!! SCREW THE WORLD AND EVERYONE IN IT!!!

[shadycaliber]

as long as your happy you must be doing the right thing :)

[Los]

You deserve each other and I know this will not get any stars from you because you are looking for someone to say what you are doing is right but I can not help myself to stoop to that. You both are dead wrong and if I was his brother you both would be buried six feet under while I sit smiling on death row.

[Ela8537]

wow you have a great outlook on life...grow up and stop being ignorant

[pussycat9331]

If, as you say, you are only worried about your own happiness, why would you not have the guts to tell your husband? After all, you'd be getting what you wanted.A year of the affair - but she is pregnant with twins? Hmmm...he can't hate her that much, can he?You and the brother are selfish and self-centered; do what you feel you must; you two will have to look at yourself in the mirror each day and know how many lives you affected by your actions. Cheaters with cheaters; at least you'll both know what to expect from each other in the future.

[KC]

Do you really think you are going to be happy with his brother? I mean, when the dust settles, are you really going to be happy? Every relationship has its issues. You are going to be giving up a lot to be with this guy, including the respect of a lot of people. Are you OK with that? I don't know how you can be happy if you are destroying other people's lives. Think about the end result. It sounds to me like it's not worth it. I think your feelings for the brother are fleeting.

[babyontheway7595]

wow!!! well i bet everyone here will tell you that what you are doing is wrong, at the end is you the one who has to ask yourself if you thing what you're doing is right? Would you like your husband to be doing the same thing to you...Solve your problems the right way, talk to you husband so you guys can come to an agreement for a divorce be honest, and tell your brother in law to talk to his partner and do the same thing don't just run away like cowards, he has two babies on the way and he has to be responsible about it...Remember the way you do things in this life, that is the same way life will do them for you...Good luck...

[Royalhinney]

I think I saw this once on a Jerry Springer episode!

[jessiej83]

You deserve everything you get and I hope you get all that happiness on earth because if you believe in God you are an Adultress and are commiting a sin. So if it's worth burning for eternity, go for it!!

[cs2005]

just do it, who care what answers you get here it dont matter nayways. run away and far far way. and change your name and your appearance as well.

[mp3]

no she won't get over it and yes children will get in your way...his children. do you really want a man that would walk out on his pregnant wife? doesn't say much for either of you. sounds like you two deserve each other. and by the way your relationship is doomed. karma sux

[joan_of_freakin_arc4903]

life is not all about getting your needs met others are involved, and one day u will be in her shoes and get hurt, and then u will know what it feels like. u can make up all kinds of excuses to justify what u are doing to make it sound logical but in reality its just how u see it. he will always be tied to his kids, and u may now think your the important one but just wait until the kids are born he may change his tune and it may be u left out in the cold with no one. boring hubby, your just into the falling in love thing, the excitement that goes with anything new. think before u make a move here and all the lives u will be destroying.

[CB8875]

You guys are nuts. Are you for real?You are a twisted thinker and you need to wake up.You are willing to wreck your marriage and on top of that you are going to wreck your brother-in-laws marriage who has a child coming on the way.You are not in love, you are lusting after each other and that will not last very long, because that will get boring also.You will also destroy the relationship of these two brothers for life.Please stop doing what you are trying to do and get back on trying to fix and rejuvenate your marriage.

[Ido262]

Your brother-in-law is a liar. If he really didn't love his wife, why is he sleeping with her and why is she pregnant?Two wrongs don't make a right here, and what you're both doing is wrong.Save yourself some grief and cut the affair off immediately. The affair is fun and games until the truth is revealed, and many others will be affected by it. It is not just about you and him, but also all of the surrounding family members and friends.Stop the nonsense and get into counseling. With any luck, you might just be able to make amends with your husband.

[saodaji]

it seems to me that your only concern is your sexual satisfaction.i've got news for you dear......marriage isn't about sex. marriage is committment. you're planning to run away w/ your brod-in-law, then what will you do for the rest of your life? just sexing? because that's all you care about? watch out! karma is on its way!

[michaelw6791]

Instant Karma's Going to Get You! And deservedly so!

[Alwaysreadyforanything9933]

BEst thing to do is both you and him get a divorce then get together without having to worry who gets mad or hurt. And also get all the finaciancal drama over with now and not later wehen it will be harder for both of you. SO talk to him and agree on getting a divorce from each others spouses and move on. Easier that way and less drama. And this way it will make you a lot happier. Not unless the guy only wants you to be on the side?

[switielicious]

il tell you..karma will always in you..i think both of you..

[rosalyn_1973]

So basically what you are saying is that you don't care about anyone but you. But are you sure he feels the same notice i said feels not Say's it's a difference I can say anything to make you happy but deep down inside do I really mean that. He has to be willing to give up on his twins for you(Cus we both know wifey ain't going to be happy with this at all) And who's to say that you won't be replaced just like he replaced his wife? Remember that ole wives tale "How you get your man is how you lose him" But honestly you are grown and you know what you are getting yourself into Just remember not all stories have happy endings.

[CocoaGirl]

you're fooling yourself if you think this will last. i don't even think you really understand love - to do this to your husband just because you think he's "boring" at sex (if you really ever loved him you would have done your utmost to keep your marriage by attending some counselling). you don't know love, since you have no second thought to break up a family, destroy the trust of these innocent children - that's not love. and this your brother in law doesn't love you - he will soon get tired of you and run off with another (repeating to you what you both did you others). and if you truly loved this brother-in-law, you would have done the legitimate thing and be honest with these other folks and admit that there is a relationship. hiding a relationship already is proof of an insecure relationship.

[Alwaysthinkin]

I'M JUST GONNA GUESS THAT THIS IS A QUESTION TO BE FUNNY. SO HA, HA TO THAT!!IF NOT. . . KARMA IS GONNA PUNCH YOU IN FACE WITH A FORCE YOU WILL WISH ON ANYONE! PEOPLE LIKE YOU MAKE HOPE GOD IS REAL. . . .

[josephineoftheswamps4138]

Karma will catch up with you. You are going to get the pain you've caused your husband, his brother's wife and his twins all back on yourself, but three fold. Plus... if they'll do it with you, they'll do it to you.

[cowboys2840]

I am sorry but you guys really need some help. Don't realize you are just living in the moment, just give it time and sex with your brother in law will get boring. You have no realtionship it all based on lies, which only leads to failure. If these is path you chose, good luck to you because there is alot of pain and suffering ahead for you.

[upal-usa]

I agree....both yall are crazy and let me add sick in the flippin head....thats right SICK

[Sweet3130]

Before you run off make sure everything is in order, and that this is something you both want to do. The last thing you want is to move away with him, and he feels guilty to go back to his pregnant wife. Start saving up money, so you can get a nice place, and I wish you both the best

[Devon]

both of you are so completely wrong I wouldn't be surprised to hear if your head was on backwards!!! To be a cheater is one thing but to take someone away from a family that is disgusting. Maybe you don't have kids...TOGETHER...but he is about to be a father, unless he plans on having nothing to do with the kids either...he'll do the same to you, but you will deserve it for what you did to his brother...take it to Jerry Springer!!!

[Nandina3888]

Oh congrats on destroying not ONE household, but TWO. That takes some doing..."Im worried about my happiness thats all I care about...as far as his wife she will get over it..."The words "selfish b*tch" come immediately to mind."no kids will get in my way I guarantee it"Well, except for those pesky twins that HIS wife is pregnant with, but who gives a damn about THEM, right? 'Cause it's all about YOU."His brother and I are planning to run away and leave his pregnant wife and leave my husband as well"You sound like you deserve each other. And in three years when you're back here whining about how he's cheating on you, well... Karma's a bitch. And she's patient.

[cardgirl2]

You sound like a self centered woman with no regard to whom you will hurt with your affair with this clown. You are planning to run away when his wife is pregnant? You are really cold hearted and let me tell you something Miss, your husband's brother is getting a real bit............h for a mistress. I feel you should rethink this escapade and let this guy alone. Yea...they are all unhappy because that is what they say when they are sc.........................ing you...please I am going to vomit. That is as old as time. You are bored with your husband sexually? Well, do something about it. Talk to him, discuss ways to make it better between you, not that you have to have an affair with his brother whose wife is going to have a baby. You are worried about your happiness? What about the lives you and him will destroy if you run away. What a selfish person you are and you should be ashamed of yourself. End this affair and work on your marriage and leave your brother in law alone.

[Heleyna]

what goes around comes around...perhaps you'll become pregnant and then some other sl*& will sleep with this guy and will run away with him. don't kid yourself. you're both very selfish and cowardly for 'running' away..its not a fantasy..its real life, but you'll realize that soon enough..and that you never asked a quetion..you just stated what you're doing..well good for you..

[nblazer021]

Any person that cares more about their happiness than TWO, innocent little babies, is SOO TWISTED beyond belief. I really hope this is fake because you dont even care about those babies, who,because of you wont have a father! Talk about a homewrecking whore!!

[cindra8722]

I think you're wrong. These might be YOUR plans, but are you sure they're his too? I wonder, because if the two of you have been having an affair for a year, that means that he's also been screwing his wife, too---- that's why she's pregnant. He didn't HAVE to screw his wife, did he---I'm mean especially if you were all that good? Hmmm, that must mean he WANTED to screw her and if he wanted to, that must mean he's not all that into you like you think he is. But, what are you waiting for---why don't you find out. Go ahead and try to get him to leave with you. Hurry up, hurry up. I'll bet $100 he won't leave his wife. He's having way too much fun using you. Go ahead, prove me wrong.

[jeffb1255]

JERRY, JERRY, JERRY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[sparkleythings_4you6031]

I don't see a question, just a confession.

[roseepstein]

1)if he cheated on her, he'll cheat on you.2)hes got twins on the way? so hes unhappily married, but he and his wife have had sex in the past nine months AT LEAST?3)You had a problem with your husband. you created another by cheating on him. you created another by going after somebody elses man. you created another by going after your husbands BROTHER,(He surely thinks youre a ho!) you created another problem by wrecking his childrens lives for sure, and your own childrens.I hope God helps you.

[Le]

I am a champion for LOVE, TRUE LOVE.If you know you have this with your man, you need to go about it the right way.1. divorce your husband2. he divorce his wifewhy not?? you've been together and waited for a whole years, what's another 6 months with the paprework??3. encourage him to do the right thing and be a good dad to his twin babies (if he is heartless towards them, eventually, he'll be heartless towards you....when?? when you argue, when the sex isn't so hott anymore, when you gain some weight, when you get wrinkles, when your boobs droops, GET the point??)I am very happily married, and after 20 years, we still have sex several times a week---that's realy love!!Good luck