How not to be jealous in a relationship? [Archive]

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Sam

10-17-2007, 02:22 PM

I'm so jealous when it comes to my boyfriend. He has never cheated on me, but he has flirted a lot with other girls.I have been hurt before in a different relationship and it's just so so hard to learn to trust again. How do I not freak out whenever he talks to a girl, or when he is at school. (We go to different schools.)

crasher

10-18-2007, 08:08 AM

He shouldn't flirt.

218_jane

10-19-2007, 01:54 AM

When you get an answer, let me know!

Catlover819

10-19-2007, 07:40 PM

just try to ignore it i know its hard not to get jealous because i like a guy and he has a gf and his gf knows i like him but were still friends but the bad thing is he liked me last year and i didnt but now i like him he has a gf well anyway just ignore him or u even flirt with some other guys if it will help u!!! you go girl!!!lol goodluck

tess

10-20-2007, 01:26 PM

It's normal to be jealous. I'm engaged and I'm still jealous when my fiancee hangs out with other girls. He's never been with anyone before and he's a good guy but I get the feeling anyway, probably because I'm insecure about myself. I don't think you can do anything about it unless you talk to him about it. Tell him how you feel about the flirting and see how he reacts.

Chingie

10-21-2007, 07:11 AM

IT IS WRONG TO FLIRT TELL HIM 2 STOP DAT B.C YOU R GOING TO BECOME MORE JEALOUS IF YOU'RE TRYIN TO STOP. BUT JUST THINK OF IT AS HE YOURS AND DA OTHER GIRLS JUST WANNA BE IN YOUR SHOES ( BUT THEY ARE NOT). AND THINK OF IT AS THEY CAN'T DO THINGS WIT HIM LIKE YOU CAN B/C HE'S YOUR BOYFRIEND =.