How do you tell your boyfriend that you cheated on him ??? [Archive]

PEGGYS

09-11-2007, 12:50 AM

I wouldn't if I regretted it. I would just hope that he never found out, and promise myself that it would never happen again.

BlazeFalconburger

09-11-2007, 04:23 AM

With your head hung in shame.... the important thing is that you tell him, how you do it is pretty irrelevant.

jes1brian

09-11-2007, 07:56 AM

just tell him st right .the sooner you do it . the quicker it.s over ;and you will know where you stand .

melissa5620

09-11-2007, 11:29 AM

just be straight forward and tell him its bad news anyways so the time and place truly doesn't matter

dark

09-11-2007, 03:02 PM

explain to him.first take him to a quiet place,then tell him to calm down no matter what you say.then start explaining to him.i believe he will understand and i hope he will forgive you.because you and your boyfriend are human who have feelings too.

Marshmellow

09-11-2007, 06:36 PM

keep your mouth shut for your own good and repent what you did.

saleen

09-11-2007, 10:09 PM

why you cheated him?if there have any causation.

CaleG

09-12-2007, 01:42 AM

from my point of view as a guy, I'd tell you to say it plain and simple, along with an explanation as to why it happened. No use sugar-coating something like that....

Laurascouse

09-12-2007, 05:15 AM

Open your mouth and let the words tumble out! Hes not going to like it, so try and make sure you do it somewhere quiet and if you still expect him to even consider being with you anymore, then you are going to have to be so regretful! If I were him I would be rid of you like a shot, unless you really love each other and have enough in the relationship to get through something like this! It is going to take an awfully long time for you to gain his trust again if you stay together, and he will more than likely feel insecure.

DEBBIED

09-12-2007, 08:48 AM

why would you want to tell him, all you will do is hurt him and hurt him some more what you need to do is to decide what you want and stop wasting his life for him. dont make yourself feel better by telling him. its not fair. you live with your dirty secret. and let him livem his life with someone that want cheat on him

davidr2518

09-12-2007, 12:21 PM

dont... deny deny deny.... it never happened.... right?

babyface

09-12-2007, 03:55 PM

the best thing to do is sit him down and tell him the truth, just do it its the only way, you cannot put it off because you will end up not doing it and guilt will kill you or make you do things are obvious that you are making up for something and he will get suspicious and it will be more hurtful after u try and make up for it before he even knows about it, he will feel stupid and humiliated. Good luck, this could be the end, but its bette to be honest than not - you owe him the truth no matter the consequences.

kas2007

09-12-2007, 07:28 PM

if you want to be with him i stress DON'T TELL HIM. don't do it again it is wrong. if you tell him and stay with him you have dug Ur own grave he will use it as ammunition against you for as long as he knows you. he will never trust you and constantly be suspicious

MrAnswerman

09-12-2007, 11:01 PM

Just show him your positive STD test results !

kathleen

09-13-2007, 02:34 AM

listen, if you i suggest you should, but don't talk to each other face to face while ur at it, because he might use violence. Talk to the phone and break it down gently. You could say you love him and it will never happen again. Tell him to forgive you. If he doesn't, break up. If you cheated on him, its not like you care anymore.

NL3158

09-13-2007, 06:07 AM

Unless you want to end the relationship or have him never trust you again, you don't tell him. You do, however, learn from your mistake, and make an honest effort never to do it again.

jstagirl1969

09-13-2007, 09:40 AM

you need to figure out why you did it, and if hes worth losing then tell him, if not keep it to yourself until he finds out, or doesnt findout. you are the onewho has to live with the fact you are a cheater.

ozleck

09-13-2007, 01:14 PM

If it is only a one-time affair, you don't have to tell him. You may be overcome with lust probably the man is irresistible because of something you dream of a man. That must not destroy your and your boyfriend's lifetime happiness. Just love him and don't cheat at him anymore. You asked because it's clear your conscience is bothering you.

bette698365

09-13-2007, 04:47 PM

Just come out and tell him.

sweety

09-13-2007, 08:20 PM

Don't tell him and keep cheating on him da girl, they all deserve it!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

srf5628

09-13-2007, 11:53 PM

just go to him and tell him it doesnt matter how just so he knows and has to opportunity to get out of the relationship if thats what he wants. the truth comes out sooner or later

autumn

09-14-2007, 03:26 AM

there is no easy way to tell someone that you cheated on them , they are going to be hurt and mad , but i feel its best to tell them , because things can always surface ..even years later , ... he will probably want to know why you cheated so be prepared to tell him , you owe him that much .. good luck.