His was Honesty

[cathy]

When I confronted my husband he was honest with me and told me everything. I don't know if it was just being honest or if he wanted to hurt me more by rubbing it in my face.

He is honest like that. We would have some small incident happen and he would always confess if he was in the wrong. I love his honesty, but hate his cheating.

[SerenBaker]

Honesty is better than the lies. At least you know where you stand and you can make intelligent decisions about what you want to do and whether to try counselling or just cut your losses and get out.

[starshimmer]

I guess, for me, it would be a matter of how much honesty I could stand. I mean, I 'm not sure I want to know all the intimate details, you know? It's hard enough to live with what I did know, and the rest I imagined. Couldn't be much worse than that! lol.

I think, at least for me, the honesty part would come in where I found out where WE stood, and how he felt about me and our marriage. I could care less what the other woman was thinking or how she felt, really.

[Jewel]

I wish that my husband would be honest about it, now that he knows that I know everything that he's done. He just doesn't understand that since I already know what's going on, he should just come clean and make everything less painful.

[jessi_rubin]

You can try for counselling and see if that works out for you. Else as serenbaker said you can count your losses and get out. But its very good that your man has told you truth honestly all by himself.

[titaniumhijau]

So, my advice. Think twice. I know its hurting you because of his honesty. But if you still love him and can forgive his mistake. Why not you accept him again? But if you think you can live without him. So, its depend on you. If you already have a child, think also their future. But if you still want to leave, better think first if you have a work and have many support like friends and family.