Getting out

[SerenBaker]

I think this is probably the hardest part of breaking up--getting into the 'getting out of the house' routine again. Not necessarily dating, just getting out and doing something different. It can be going to the club for a dance, or going to a church social, or a charity breakfast, or even going to the movies by yourself because there's something you want to see. Depending on where you live, there could be really fun things available, not to meet someone new, but to revitalize your spirit and your inner self. Take up ceramics or painting or anything you've always wanted to try. Teach a class in something you love doing--just get out and remember that you're a whole person by yourself and you don't need a man to make you "complete". God doesn't make half-people.

[Jewel]

That's really good advice, and thanks for posting it. I've found that getting out really helps clear my head. I like to take my younger family members out, just because it distracts me. My niece and nephew are ages 5 and 6, and they have really helped me learn that not everything in the world is ugly. :)

[SerenBaker]

I think we tend to lose ourselves in our families and forget to keep our own interests alive and when a marriage falls apart, we're lost. That's why it's good to renew your interest in hobbies and take up new stuff.

[starshimmer]

It's really hard to do when you're so used to being part of a couple. I had always flown with my husband, driven with him, all that stuff. When I found I had to do it by myself, it was pretty scary. But once I did it, and found it wasn't so bad after all, I felt pretty proud of myself for being able to do it.

But even so, there was still something sad about being on your own with all that. I had been so used to sharing it. It's good though, to feel more confident in yourself and able to do it without being dependent.

[SerenBaker]

You can look for groups that travel together and make new friends that way, or do stuff with other friends. Maybe I'm rare in that I enjoy my own company and I don't find it lonesome to go somewhere or do something on my own, although I do prefer having one or two good people to share things with.

[BRANDY1982]

I Am Currently Going Through The Same Thing Because I Have Been Alone Apx 8 Months With 2 Little Girls And Its Very Difficult To Have To Be Mommy And Daddy I Dont Have Anyone To Share My Inner Thoughts With I Am Not Coping Well With Being Alone

[jessi_rubin]

I find that a little bit easy to do with this simple mantra. If the guy himself is not loyal to you then why the hell you should be so sentimental. Just get out, enjoy your life, have fun and do things you like to do.

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