Logs and email

[SerenBaker]

My ex didn't realize way back in the day, that all his IRC chats were logged. Our computer was shared and I knew all his passwords, and beyond that, I knew ways around them. I got into his chat logs and confronted him with the evidence.

[starshimmer]

I haven't caught him with emails or anything like that. He knows I'm at the computer too much for that, and I know more about a computer than he does, which isn't saying a whole lot! :) But he's been pretty sneaky in other ways.

[Jewel]

I've found pictures saved on my computer (as I mentioned in another thread) but I've yet to check his emails or internet logs. I don't think that I want to check his emails though. I'm scared of what I'll find. Plus, his passwords are very secret, and he's never told them to me.

[alexis]

Sometimes logs are good and sometimes they are bad. Seem bad for him and good for you. Jewel - save yourself the time, prepare yourself for the worst. It is better to know than never know. It is never healthy to stay in a relationship that is not meant to be, and if he is cheating - its not meant to be. Stay strong!