how do i know if my husband is cheating on me? and he live overseas?

[Thegirlnextdoor9169]

he lives in England, every time i call he is never home until past midnight. always online until so late. He is good but I dont know we just been married for a little while should I be suspicoius. or maybe he is just really being honest. He says he is at friends house or at the library.

[conny1106]

The only way is by getting a Private Investigator

[lopst]

You do understand that England is in a different time zone than the US? Why do you live in different countries if you're newly married?

[Paul7756]

In a long distance marriage like that, I don't know if you could possibly figure it out. You can't look for any of the normal clues. You can't see his face, or ask him questions, or test his reactions, or follow him anywhere. I guess you might be able to tell based on the depth of his answers. You could ask him what he was doing at his friends house, and if he says something vague like "just hanging out" over and over, maybe there is something there. If he talks specifically about what he did there and talks in detail, that's a good sign.

But, none of that is evidence. I wish you luck - it sounds like a tough situation all around.

[MarilynP9241]

I lived in London, they have quite a nightlife, I doubt he is at the library, just my opinion on men.

[elegantartwork8510]

There's no way for you to be sure so stop thinking like that. Even if he was-- there's nothing you can do about it. In the meantime, You will drive yourself crazy and make him not want to come home.

[brij_lewis]

Can't tell. But it's pretty normal to be suspicious.