goingnuts9898
09-06-2008, 04:26 PM
cheated on my husband 3 months ago with a guy he knew for almost 25yrs in fact he is his(my husband) daughter(from previous relationship)anyhow my husband found and are currently trying to work out this marriage for 6 days now. i really was into this guy alot(maybe love) this guy currently not working and he was staying at a relatives house but when all this came out in the open everyone turn their backs on him and was kicked out and no one wants to take him in. he is living in a hallway. now here's my question....i can't get him off my mind and can't help feeling sorry for him i feel that it's my fault he's going through this. now, we had plans leave together but i have decided to work things out at home(he doesn't know that) he's("other guy") in love with me. can i confuse sympathy with love?i have been with my husband(who is great man) for nine yrs we have 2kids. i know i have made the right choice but feel that my heart is over therei feel that on top of him getting thrown out he doesn't get to be with me. that's y i feel sorry for him