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SFROCKS2954
08-15-2008, 06:50 AM
I was thinking the other day and I asked myself would I have a threesome.It was just a thought and I am not going to have a threesome while I am married.I refuse to because I count it as cheating and it opens doors to other bad things and I think sex should be for two people who are in love only.But something tells me that I want one.I know that I won't do it so don't tell me not to do it because I already know that I won't.But the fantasy is bad.If I told my husband,he'd feel betrayed or something.I'm very sure that he has fantasies as well.Does it sound like I want a threesome and will my husband want to divorce me over something such as this?

V4694
08-15-2008, 10:11 AM
Don't tell him and you wont have to worry.It's a fantasy..a lot of people have them, they don't feel the need to act them out or share them with their spouse.

Royalhinney0258
08-15-2008, 01:33 PM
You already know how your husband would react, so why go there. Get yourself some toys and live your fantasies in your mind when you are alone.

sgt_Casey
08-15-2008, 04:54 PM
Nah, I'd encourage it. Nothing like a little girl-on-girl action right in my bed to get me going.

Summerland
08-15-2008, 08:16 PM
My Husband and i are planning on having one, but there will be some rules like he can't touch her and she can only give him a BJ, but he really wants to see us girls together and since i love him im going to give him a show! But you have to put there rules down. Have fun!

luvspoodles
08-15-2008, 11:38 PM
It is a fantasy. Don't tell your husband. If we shared all of our fantasies, that would be very bad. Lots of people have fantasies. There is nothing wrong with you. Just have more sex with your husband and make it more exciting.

soozemusic5970
08-16-2008, 02:59 AM
If I knew I was not going to do it, then I would not tell my husband. You know his feelings/emotions on certain subjects, so I would not want to get him thinking in either direction if you know what I mean. Why not put some porn on sometimes when you and your husband are having sex or a video.

MikeM8948
08-16-2008, 06:21 AM
if you proposed bringing a girl in with you its doubtful that he'd want to divorce you for that. he'll probably treat you better than ever. cheating is about deceiving so if you're both involved in the threesome its not cheating.if you're sure he has fantasies as well it might be worth discussing. if you have a match then you're in business.

allknowing0032
08-16-2008, 09:42 AM
my wife has the fantasies, i dont mind not saying ur husband would, but she talks to me while we r having sex like she did but that is far as it ever goes and just makes 4 great sex. sharing ur fantasies or not u need them 4 great sex with out them sex would bcome boring.