lynb2
06-29-2008, 10:59 PM
ok first time i've posted on her but wanted some advise, i met my husband tho a dating site, we got engaged after one year and got married after two been together now for for 3 years. I have 2 kids from a previous relationship and there father is not interested at all, my kids love my husband to bits. ( he has no kids)
my husband has always been abit of a flirt, and also a soft touch for women, when i met him he was still talking to an ex of 3 years but never told me this he picked up her kid from school n one occassion and did not tell me, when i found out he was so upset saying he didn't no how to tell this girl he had met someone else etc and that he done nothing with her since we had been together, anyway i rang her and called her bluff and turned out he was telling the truth.
however a year ago he started a business been under loads of stress and i recently found he had placed an add online hoping to meet up with someone for day time nsa fun!!!
i confrounted him and managed to get he womans number and speak to her, she said she asked him to meet her but he said he could not as he was married, he says to would never have meet anyone and just wanted to flirt with someone whilst he was at work as he is so stressed! since then i've dug tho every email and text message and contacted every woman or ex to find out if he has cheated, ( nothing has come back saying he has) i get the feeling he just really likes the attention of women, i dont think he would ever have the balls to cheat, but how do i no for sure? and how do you sort out a man like this? he never makes the first move in bed altho when i do, he's so up for it, I argue with him all the time about morels and being faithfull! i've given this man everything he has always wanted a house, kids family life etc sometimes i dont no if he is lying to hold onto these things or if he is telling the truth, i really feel like i'm banging my head against a brick wall with him.
what do you think?
my husband has always been abit of a flirt, and also a soft touch for women, when i met him he was still talking to an ex of 3 years but never told me this he picked up her kid from school n one occassion and did not tell me, when i found out he was so upset saying he didn't no how to tell this girl he had met someone else etc and that he done nothing with her since we had been together, anyway i rang her and called her bluff and turned out he was telling the truth.
however a year ago he started a business been under loads of stress and i recently found he had placed an add online hoping to meet up with someone for day time nsa fun!!!
i confrounted him and managed to get he womans number and speak to her, she said she asked him to meet her but he said he could not as he was married, he says to would never have meet anyone and just wanted to flirt with someone whilst he was at work as he is so stressed! since then i've dug tho every email and text message and contacted every woman or ex to find out if he has cheated, ( nothing has come back saying he has) i get the feeling he just really likes the attention of women, i dont think he would ever have the balls to cheat, but how do i no for sure? and how do you sort out a man like this? he never makes the first move in bed altho when i do, he's so up for it, I argue with him all the time about morels and being faithfull! i've given this man everything he has always wanted a house, kids family life etc sometimes i dont no if he is lying to hold onto these things or if he is telling the truth, i really feel like i'm banging my head against a brick wall with him.
what do you think?