If a father of 2 is secretly trying to contact girls thru' online chats and dating, can he be called loyal?

[diti_chs]

A 44 year old man, father of two children has been secretly and continuously doing online dating and chats with LOCAL girls in his office for last one year, going out early and coming back late, most of the time nobody knows his whereabouts, goes frequently out of the town saying he will be back within a week and then for several weeks he is missing, reluctant to give enough expenses to his wife who sometimes is compelled to borrow in order to support the house and two children and is extremely neglecting toward the family when within the town. The man is announcing high moral values in public, once he threw away a worker from his office who was having an extra-marital affair, denounces watching porno sites and chatting in the office, but himself is doing the very same things secretly, what conclusion can be drawn about him from these?

[dddddd]

he is alying not loyal pain in the behind!

[GetOverIt]

he's a freak

[suziejoytotheworld]

name and shame the creep

[JessicaC0864]

mid life crisis

[Crazy_Fool]

#1 he is a hypocrite. But really unless it is you or your husband, what is it any of your business?

[LarryV0909]

If it was provable that he did these things, then I would say he was a liar and a cheat. If however, this was a scheme by one or more people to get back at him because he didn't do any of these things, then I would call him an upright guy...It depends on what is really happening...

[maryw]

what a hypocrit!! I would dump his butt and demand child support and alimony....also if one of his children is a male it can have long term effects about how he in the future will treat women! Save your children!!!!!!!!

[BellaLatina9477]

That he is a hypocrite.

[AmeliaT]

he can't be trusted. if you know he is acting behind everyone's back then he most certainly NOT loyal!

[fairykisses]

NO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[AshleyM5855]

He needs to grow up and take care of who he is responsible for.

[Noonei]

I conclude that none of this made any sense to me. It seems that someone is working hard at destroying someone elses integrity...for what cause?Its not our business what the person is doing, why are you telling us? If you believe its true, do something about it but sitting online and writing out 3 paragraphs of what SOMEONE ELSE is doing is ludicrous. I guess I just don't care.

[WylieCoyote]

Are you involved? Are you being judgmental? Do you have influence over this situation? How does it effect you? These are questions you must address before you can pass judgment on the lying conniving bastard. Think how exposure will effect the others in the situation, be careful not to hurt the ones he is already hurting.

[trailsend_ranch7705]

FIRST..........how does one know he is really doing this at WORK? Are you a nosey sectretay or a suspecting wife?If I were the "wife", I'd be getting myself a job, and making the money to support me and the kids and throw his butt to the curb and while at it, I'd be fileing divorce, and ask high amouts of alimoney and child support, and don't forget to insist on !/2 of his 401K too!IF your the "secretary, tell the wife and remind her to do the above also!

[eddood52]

1. He's a hypocrite2. He's cheating3. He's an idiot

[free_angel4349]

He's a wolf in sheep's clothing.